Islamic marriage advice and family advice

I need help to marry a boy of my choice

Assalam Alaikum
I'm 23 years old. I like a boy. He is from my school but he used to be my senior. He is studying in a different country now. He has done his bachelors and is now doing his masters. He's 25 years old. I have added him on Facebook but I don't talk to him 🙁 We never spoke to each other, It's kind of a one sided love story at the moment. I really like him and know that I won't get a better life partner than him.
He's a very nice guy. Please tell me any Wazifa or Dua so that I can get married to him. I know it will only happen if Allah SWT wants.
But what I know is that we should always ask God for whatever we want. Someone told me to go to a Baba or to the one who do Black magic. But I will not go for that because I have complete faith in Allah and I know if that boy whom I love is in my destiny I will definitely get him InshaAllah.


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  1. Assalaamualaikam

    Please read our articles on wazifa and dua, which may inshaAllah help you understand the difference between them and why we should avoid wazifa.

    As intense as your feelings may be, as a Muslimah, it's important to consider other, more permanent aspects in a potential spouse. Is this guy pious? Is he of good character - eg. polite and respectful, lowers his gaze, helps others?

    Islamically, it would be appropriate for him to approach your wali, or for your wali to approach him. So, if you decide that this guy is of strong deen and good character, you could ask your wali to meet with him in order to assess his character themselves. This could then, inshaAllah, lead to a discussion about whether or not the guy is in a position to consider marriage, and whether the two of you might be compatible.

    Avoid any babas or black magic - these are evil practices that go against the principles of Islam. I would try to avoid spending time with anyone who has suggested these; if someone is going to suggest such evil things, then they really aren't someone to spend time around.

    Make sure that you are observing appropriate Islamic limits at all times. Don't be tempted to enter into private communication with this (or any other) guy, make sure you are covered appropriately, avoid haraam activities. And above all, place your trust in Allah - He will have a plan for you that is best for you in this life and the next.

    Midnightmoon editor

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