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I’m in love with a non muslim man

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Hello,

I'm 18 years old and I'm in love with a non Muslim man. We started off as friends which led to something more. We do not touch or kiss nor have we committed zina. We do talk on the phone though.  He is a good man and we soon hope to get married but of course he has to convert first. I am a Muslim but im not fully educated on everything so I don't want to teach him the wrong things.However, even if he does convert my parents will never approve because of cultural differences. Im arab and hes hispanic. How do I get there approval? Interracial marriage is okay for the men in my family but not the women.

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  1. Then become knowledgeable so that you can teach him or so that you both could learn together. To me it sounds like you don't want the responsibility. And that's not how a marriage works. A marriage is a partnership where both party work together. To me you don't sound ready for the marriage so I advice you to break off any haram attachment that you have with this guy . if you know your parents won't allow you to marry him then why waste his time unless you're prepared to fight for him

  2. first thing the feelings you had for him may be true but it could turn out to be the the traps of shaitan you should always rememeber think about death as a muslim and a humanbeing i advised you not to fall so quickly he is not a muslim that is the problem you might do not understand now but if you learn about islam and later you will understand it slowly or smoothly i say he might be a good man but there is not guarantee that he will be with you after marriage i mean same for a muslim men but there is a difference between a muslim and non muslim you may not understand it now but later you will so i say pray to allah almighty and asks allah for help please sister i am not enemy of you so please do not take my words as harsh or rude think and think again and again because it was not a matter of marriage it was a matter of heaven and hell what he wants you to convert to his religion and if you take that step means its over for you and for him so please pray five times a day regularly and learn about islam and read and learn quran on daily basis by your self or by some some decent islamic scholar in your area where you lived but do something i think you should leave him for few days stop thinking about if you can't then turned to prayer and asks allah for help in this matter.

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