In love, but my family won´t accept it
hi, I've got a big problem. I've got a boyfriend for like 1year or so and I really love him, he's muslim too, we are from the same country so that´s not such a problem WOULD YOU THINK.
Now my dad says that he hates that side of the country and the culture he says that he would never be good for me. I'm 15 and he's 17 and we wanna marry in the future, it's serious, my dad found out that he's my boyfriend he was really mad and my mom .. they said I´m a shame for the whole family and i really feel like they hate me now .. I really don´t know what to do, but I don´t wanna leave him.. please help me
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Hi sister
Asalamualaikum wa rahmathulla.Allah knows the best.
Keep yourself calm.You are quite young.You are in your teens.Hence you could possibly undergo infactuation or love. Whatever it is(whether if it is serious relationship or just infactuation) please put it aside. As the time passes by, you both will get to know if its serious one or not.As of now kindly concentrate on your studies sister.Both of you must get graduated.Do not think of marriage.Lots of time is there for you to be married.If Allah has decided he is the one for you and you are the one for him, then nobody can change Allahs destination.Trust in Allah.Please put all your efforts in learning quran and on to your college education.Try to develop new hobbies like going to orphanage or helping old people in oldage home.Allah will surely bestow his blessing on you sister.Allhamduliallh.
hi sister i hope u will read my response i thick what sister aslve told u is right u r still young for such relationships u have done a mistake this is not a love the real love is not in this way u dont know some of these love might be a trick and lie & there is a love that will start with happyness and end with sadness so u have to be very careful how ever u loved him the love of Allah is more then any love in this whole world Allah loves u more then anyone in this world He loves u more then your parents and even your boyfriend.Allah is the one who created u and rewards u with many gift which are uncountable He is mercyful to u more then your mother and if u done any sin even if they are high as the mountains He is ready to forgive them all really i saying u the truth if this much Allah loves u then cant u live a single sin for His sake belive me if u will fill your heart with Allahs love u will really be able to forget this all and start a new page in your life.and i hope u will take my advise & sister aslve.