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Is someone doing Black Magic on me?

black magic sorcererI once had a boyfriend , with whome i had 4 months relationship and then it somewhat reached to marriage , but my parents and relatives were not happy to get me married with that guy , this is why i denied to marry him later. When i did this , he and his family cursed me a lot , that i would never be happy in my life, me n my parents will always cry for me , i can never get married.

Since then , 2 consecutive years , we had been looking for a good prospect, but none comes out to be successful , recently one marriage prospect came , and my parents really like that guy , and i am quite convinced the guy is nice, but i had an accident today , which cut my lips and broke my 1 of my front tooth , so which ultimately makes me look ugly now , and i am thinking any guy who would see me will not agree to marry me , the point which knocked me , is my previous bf or his family doing some sort of black magic so that i can never get married ???

If so , then what should i do , so that the magic doesnt work on me, its Allah who does everything , how can someone do magic to prevent something good in ones life ?? And was i wrong to deny that guy ?? I still ask myself !! What kind of punishment am i getting ?? and why ?? Please reply!

- Rahman


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  1. Salamualaikum sister,
    I do not believe in black magic
    What happened to u was just a coincidence, that's all
    It would of been anyone in ur place.
    U can easily get a crown (fake tooth) in place of missing tooth.
    What happened, has happened so don't live In the past.
    So what some of the proposals didn't work out.
    Maybe it was for the best
    Maybe Allah hasn't send the right person yet.
    Inshallah u will fnd a suitable husband for urself.
    Don't stress out, there is no so called black magic.
    It's all in peoples mind.
    So don't thnk that when something tat bad happens is caused by black magic.
    Live your life, and see a dentist.
    Ur life will b back to normal Inshallah.

    • Salam, BeAl

      How can you say there is no such thing as black magic ? There IS. It's called "sihr" and it's a well known sin in Islam. Magic most certainly exists, it is mentioned in the Quran (read the story of Moses (pbuh) for instance).

      wa salam.

      Wafa.

      • Black magic is something that definitely exists and causes harm to people. The Messenger of Allah (P.b.u.h) was also afflicted with black magic.

        The word Magic is mentioned 60 times in the Holy Quran. Black Magic was practiced extensively during the time of Prophet Sulaiman, Prophet Musa and Prophet Mohammad (p.b.u.h.) It is mentioned in the Holy Quran in various places. The last two surahs of the Quran were revealed after magic was done on Prophet Mohammad. The existence of magic is an undeniable fact.

        Prophet Mohammad (p.b.u.h.) said – “Whoever blows on knots practices magic, and whoever practices magic is a mushrik (Tabrani)"

        x

      • Salamualaikum,
        Wow, okay I do take tat back. I don't know wat I was thnkin.
        But judging from this sister situation, I dont thnk black magic is involve.
        If u really thnk it is involved, pray to Allah, recite the quran.
        Just As Sister Z advised. Sorry for any wrong information.

      • Assalam o aleikum
        i want to ask that i found goat's horn in my outside garden, is there any kind of magic can be done on goat's horn if so then what sort of magic is that? and what can i do for my safety
        thanks... please reply as soon as possible i shell be very thankful to you...

        • Nava,

          Why would you ask such a random question? Instead of worrying about whether someone has done magic on you, which will do nothing but give you a headache, waste your time and cause you to become unnecessarily suspicious on people - just do your ibaadah as Allah tells you to through the Quran and Sunnah and trust that He protects you.

          SisterZ
          IslamicAnswers.com Editor

        • its also possible that 2 goats were fighting outside your garden and one happened to lose her horn. sad.

          • Lol ........ I am extremely sorry for my lough but it turnd funny I was serious about my family work study but after few days later I laugh :/

          • lol.. . its ok to laugh nadia. no1 takes 2 fighting goats seriously anyway. I was actually going to give a light advise for the broken horn also but I stopped on time. Don't want the poster to think I'm mean.

    • Asallamalikum, Bea1, How can you say that you do not believe in black magic especially when they did it on our beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). The Qur'an says black magic is real and we do believe in it.

      • Assalamu alaykum,

        FYI, Qur'an mentions magic not Black Magic.

        Magic is fooling people. Knowledge of Ghaib is with Allah.

        Magic is fooling people in to believeing in something unreal, something other than the Truth.

        Magic is not some " shaaa shuu shaa - destroy him- shaa shuua shaa " command.

        Our Ummah has accepted Pagan concepts of Magic to a large extent. Where as in the Qur'an Magic is clearly "deception" and nothing more than that.

        Salaam,
        Your brother.

    • Well..I can understnd ur problem dr
      But if God will everything will be fine wiz timejust pray that u r safe

  2. Asalaamualaykum Rahman Sadia,

    Black magic does exist in Islam.

    However I do not think at all, that your difficulty in finding a suitable spouse has anything to do with black magic.

    Look within yourself and assess what you may be doing or not doing that is making it difficult for you to find a spouse. We should use our wisdom to keep ourselves in check, instead of jumping to the conclusion that everytime something goes wrong or we are faced with a difficulty in life, it is a result of black magic.

    ***

    Generally, apart from establishing the obligatory forms of worship, i.e. five daily Salaah, Fasting, we should make a habit of reciting the last three surahs of the Quran and Ayat-ul-Qursi before we sleep for Allah's protection over us. Sister, please read up and educate yourself about Islam, as it is those who are vulnerable through lack of knowledge who are easily taken advantage of by soothsayers and the like.

    ***
    If you rejected your ex-boyfriend's proposal, you were obviously not meant to marry him and you had your reasons and your rights to reject him. Thinking about your ex will not be of any benefit to you. Educate yourself in your deen, knowledge is the strongest weapon. Marriage will come when it is supposed to come, in the mean time make a positive effort and present yourself in a dignified manner. Accept Allah's Will and move on.

    SisterZ
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

    • I agree with SisterZ, although magic exists, people too quickly blame magic for problems in their lives that have nothing to do with it.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  3. Dear Sister Rahman, instead of worrying about black magic and such, see your dentist right away. If you still have the broken piece of your tooth take it with you. If not, the dentist can possibly fill it in, or he can put a crown on it. It will look like new.

    So don't despair. It will not affect your future Insha'Allah.

    Wael
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  4. Salamalikum
    i read your story and feel sad and i will pray to allah if any one do black magic on you ‎then may allah help you to cure it and show you the way of cure.. what you say maybe ‎correct because many kind of magic exist like fight between wife and husband, girl ‎should not get marry etc etc,,, how can you identified it is a effect of black magic or not ‎there is some signs to identified it ,,, tell me something your hair falling? you feel head ‎ach more specially when someone come to see you for marry? does your hand or feet get ‎feeling less often? see if you are effected with it there is a way and it is a Islamic way ‎dont try to kill magic with magic take care .. let me know where are you from

    regards

  5. SALAM
    BLACK MAGIC IS REAL AND EXISTS AND IS PRACTICED BY 1 IN EVERY 10 MUSLIM AND THIS IS NOT A JOKE EVERY1 IS PRACTISING SOME FORM OF MAGIC AND IT SEEMS TO BE DONE ON THE SIMPLE PEOPLE ONLY IGNORANT PEOPLE DON'T BELIEVE THAT MAGIC EXISTS BECAUSE THEY HAVE THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE IF ANY1 THAT IS EFFECTED BY MAGIC THEY MUST HAVE A HEART OF A LION THAT THEY ARE BEARING THE PAIN SHAME ON THOSE THAT DON'T BELIEVE IN IT BECAUSE THOSE THAT DONT BELIEVE IN IT ARE ALWAYS THE ONES THAT DO IT , ALSO THERE IS ONLY A HANDFUL OF PEOPLE THAT ARE ABLE TO TAKE MAGIC OUT AND THEY ARE AWLIYA AND THEY ARE FOUND IN DESERTED JUNGLES IT IS VERY HARD. YOU WILL NEED TO BE VERY PATIENT TO FIND A CURE .

    WASALAM

  6. Shahil, I think that was a midnight horror movie that you watched.

    Wael
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  7. Rofl !!!! Is Shahil For Real ??????? Lollllll !!!!!!!

    x

  8. yes black magic exist you are luck you haven't been kill you privious bf never late you be happy
    keep an eye on stay away from socializing the only thing he can harm you if he takes your hair,nails,
    care full of your hair if black maGICIAN get your picese of hair you will suffer for the rest of

    your life becouse the will make you or give yoy any sicknnes and can also renew it when you get better
    some one come and shake hand with you and give you negative energy .that will harm you.
    for example old tradition when you go out from your home they dump some kind of weird staf
    with out knowing you might walk on it .the best thing you can do is avoid or por water on it.

    the best of all keep pray 5 times be faithful to your reigion so the black magic have no power.

    when you go to ask a black magicia for example the first question he ask you do you pray.
    that make them worry so much means they have no power on you.

    onlu alah.. good luck.......

  9. hi my name is aleesha i had two poeple doing black magic on me and i have two children involid and i cant see the children so please what do to get rid of this black magic so can you help me please and why do people do black magic people

    • As salamu alaykum, aleesha,

      Please log in and submit your question, now you should focus on improving your iman and be closer to your children, give Allah(swt) the power He (swt) has, make your salat listening to the Adhan, pray ayat Al Kursi, surah al- Fatihah and surat 112,113 and 114 and get closer to Allah(swt), read the Quran. Sister, stop thinking on them and think about how you can improve your situation, and act consequentely, insha´Allah.

      All my Unconditional Respect,

      María
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  10. i have a new friend and his name was waseem..i met him 3 years ago and now we are best friends but i feel that he is doing black magic on me..
    My bone was broken when i was with him
    my buisness get spoiled..
    My family does not like me..
    My mind get disturbd..
    how do i know that he is that person doing magic..
    shoild i leave him or what..

    • u just read daily
      7 times ayetal kursi
      7 times surah-fateha
      7 times surah-iqlas
      7 times surah-naaz
      7 times surah-falaq
      7 times surah-kafiroon

  11. pls help me i'm muslim,iam in a big problem my aunt & sister has affected very badly with black magic my sister is reading telugu bhajans,breaking all the things in my home,she is taking all the names of the people those who done black magic to her, she is very much affected, no surah is working for her ,piz help me what should i have to read

  12. Rahman Sadia: Sister,
    Assalamualikum, what people can think does exist in this world (there are more undiscovered things in the universe), but in a different way.
    For example: "CURSE" is very true thing when you break some ones heart for no reason. Hurting people means hurting Allah (breaking heart means destroying a mosque). If I say "su su sa sa ...... you will never get married again, will never be happy....sa sa" it will never and never work. But if you heart my soul for no reason then you are automatically cursed, it happened many times in the face of earth and will keep happening.

    Ofcourse you will say salat and pray all the holy duas.

    still I will NOT ask you to marry that guy but I think you should go and make him understand the reasons for not marrying him and at the end beg appology from your heart. That surely will remove the curse.

    Thank you,
    SM

  13. Owais that was absolutely wrong,magic does exists,and most popularly its done in india but the things you r saying Awliya n all its all unreal,it can be cured by verses of Quran,and the one who does magic sends an iblis or jinn to do there work,so when Quran is recited they feel pain they are hurt and they themselves when asked destroy the things of magic,which they know where it is...thats the only solution and what Allah wishes..

  14. Sister i just want to add that maybe you hurt that guy's feeling, and its not because of black magic probably you
    should ask for forgivness, he and his family might be real hurt and made doua (if you broke his heart for no reason) these kind of douas are always accpted beacuse of the injustice you have made, if thats the case then ask for forgivness and let the guy understand, why your parents etc rejected him. another thing try reading surat Bagara everyday

  15. For curing black magic listening and reading these Aya will be very helpful, insha allah.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbLGKH1y2Wk

  16. I am suffering a lot these days....
    I can't sleep....
    not getting job from almost three years,as I get a job I don't find satisfaction or get into a quarrel and resign..
    I wake up with a jerk...
    I think of suicide....
    I get irritated very soon and get angry on nothing....
    I shout for nothing....
    at home i disrespect my parents and sisters all the time...I abuse my parents that u have done nothing in your life...
    I am such a bad guy at home and even i have felt it that my behaviour is completely changed at home....
    when I am outside my home i am happy and people's best....everyone likes me....
    I am scared these days of everyone....
    I see snakes in my dreams...
    my dad fights with mom for nothing....my home is not home now...
    no money inflows and everything is going down...respect,money,contacts etc..everything is going down..
    I am suffering from a lot of medical problems and my mom dad too...when i go to doctor they say u r ok...
    I cry of pain sometimes in my left knee but when i go to an X-Ray..the report says..perfect..No problem...
    I feel tightness in chest and shoulders.....
    I have pain in body and specially in lower back and shoulders(around neck) all the time...
    I am frustrated all the time.....
    I am changing.....
    everything is going down..don't wanna live and don't have hope and faith....
    Just 3 days back I met someone and he told me that someone has put black magic like thing on you and may be your family and house too.....and then he walked away without listening anything....
    Mom has started medical problems..it's blood from mouth everyday....
    I am suffering from uncountable health problems from toe to head(head,ear,eyes,throat,neck,shoulders,chest,stomach.lower back,pain while toilet on back side and can't touch there even to wash as it pains a lot..but do it as almost to cry,legs(pain in pedi's) and specially knee(enormous pain)
    I have almost broke all my good contacts and my father also and don't know why....
    negativity is all around..I am thinking negative all the time...
    i don't want to do in life somethings I think and always want to sit at home...
    sometimes I think that I will do everything...
    I am so changed that I can feel it..
    at times I behave like a stupid and everyone laughs at me...let me tell u that there are a lot of persons who r jealous to me and my family and I don't know what....My looks are disappearing and I m starting looking bad as everyone used to say u r so handsome....
    I don't know what is going on...
    life is ruined and i think of ending it but unable to do so as you need a lot of courage to do that and also a lot more frustration to get that courage who knows one day what happen......but I am preety sure that some things are wrong...

    • Ayush, please log in and write your question as a separate post, and we'll try to advise you Insha'Allah.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

      • Sir,Please tell me how to contact you as I don't have your e-mail.My home is really torturing me these days and my luck is getting worse and worse and people say after watching my stars(kundli) that he has a lot to get we just don't understand why he is not getting anything and they don't take money from me as well sometimes and everyone says that to who ever I go.Now i am suffering from a lot of health issues ans my mom dad too.we r losing everything even respect from society and things are getting worse.

        • Hello Ayush,

          You can always login and submit your question as a new post with details. However, Islam does not recognize astrology and the belief in stars/luck. That is strongly opposed by Islam, in fact.

          Magic is caused with the help of the devil/shaitan and the cure is available in the Quran and the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

          If we can help, we will certainly do, in sha Allah.

          Abu Abdul Bari
          IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  17. Salam i have many questions to ask 1-how is black magic done 2-will going Saudi to do umrah help.3.is it possible for someone from own relative be doing this.

    • nazar azar,

      Please login and submit your question separately. We will answer you, in sha Allah.

      Abu Abdul Bari
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  18. I think my best friend is doing black magic on me for years since we use to go to go to uni and I never really paid attention to what she does. However this weekend we were at my other friends wedding and she was standing behind me whilst me and her younger sister were taking pictures of the brides entrance. I felt something pulling at my hair I quickly looked back and saw her trying to pull off a strand if hair from my head, when I looked back she quickly moved her hand down and was shocked. I saw her sister giving her eye contact to each other at that time, like something bad had happened and they both were shocked because I seen her do that.
    I came home and I remembered that two years ago when my bro went to drop us off to uni she sat in the car behind me with my other friend and pulled my hair a couple of times. I also remember her asking me can i use ur comb when v went in the cinema toilets. Was she taking my hair and doing something?

    Another time was whn v was at our other best friends wedding and I was about to go on the stage to give my friend the kangana and some money and she offered me a tissue she goes use this as you could wipe the mehndi on this. As soon as I went on stage I totally lost my memory of giving the money to my friend. I also seen her and her sister making eye contact and looking at me. As thou as they done something.

    Plz plz someone help me I'm scared to link up with her again.

    What do I do to protect myself from them

    • Mariyam, frankly it sounds to me like you are paranoid and imagining things. I suggest you talk to your friend about how you feel and see what she says. Anyway, if it bothers you so much then stay away from her in the future. If you need detailed advice then please log in and write your question as a separate post.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

      • I'm not paranoid I actually saw her trying to pull my hair I'm always ill and never put on weight.
        Doctors say nothing wrong with me.

        • I know it's her she is always jealous of me

          • I believe you. Something like that happened with me. it was my husband's aunt. Well the first time it happened I thought I was imagining. she came to see me in the hospital when I has my baby 2 yrs back. I was talking to his other aunt and my baby was in the cradle next to me and she was on the other side of the cradle. my son was fast asleep but suddenly he gave a lord cry as though he was hurt. I mother can totally tell the difference between different cries and this one was as though he just got hurt. when I saw quickly in his direction I saw her pull her hand away from his head and she was grinning I don't know y she grinning like that. it was the I-got- busted-grin but I thought I'm imagining.
            Then in my nephew's birthday party my bro -in-law gave me his camera to click their pictures and to get the right shot I was standing right ahead of everyone.. I was dead sure she was somewhere else but all of a sudden I felt this sharp pain like a couple of my strands got stuck into something and when I turned around it was her again with her favourite grin on her face. I quickly gathered all my hair and took the whole lot in the front and left the spot.
            I did not confront her coz I had no proof but there was some serious doubt in my head so i made sure I stayed away. I do meet her occasionally on such events .. and when I do I greet her even sit down at the same table and talk to her and eat with her (but I'm never careless with my hair or my clothes or my kids or what we eat and from whom). coz if I acted cold and she is toxic then my behaviour will only make it worse. I still hope I was imagining it and if it was really something then I hope she will change her mind. its easier for me coz she isn't close to me, so I can maintain a safe distance. Read ayat ul kursi when you meet her. Don't just break up all of a sudden, do it gradually but with care. whether she is upto something or not coz if the seed of doubt has been sown then there is no room for friendship anyway and in your case its best if you cut off. these things can scare you out of your wits.

            I live in India and magicians are in every corner of the street. Magic is a vital part of Hindu rituals so you can even read their ads in the newspapers..and the height of their audacity is that they make claims openly. that they can totally finish your enemy and so on and so forth. So if anyone who is infested with hard core jealousy and no emaan he will go to them, and he will be very pleased with the outcome. they are so bad.

            Oh btw way I have started wearing hijab now so that saves my hair from a lof of stuff.

          • Specially when you cook lol :/

  19. My sister suffered from this black magic and believe me she got mad for a boy.this went on 10 years when we realized it,she use to hit us for that guy and once hit my dad.......... and then we took her to balaji and she got mad there and then fell unconscious and then when she woke up.we were on our way back to home then she started abusing that man with whom she was in love and then told us the story and then we saw at home that the gifts that she gave to her was having black holes at the bottom like a small statue and other all gifts were having some kind of relation with black colour.now she is fine and happily married and she is very happy.

  20. I keep getting negative thoughts about myself such as that once I get married and later when I have kids I would be a very bad mother! Nothing good can come from my side for anyone ( my thought ) and I easily get worried about petty issues, though I try my utmost best to relax but it's as if my mind is not listening to my appeals. Can anybody tell me that if this can be referred to as black magic or some psychological disorder? I am very ashamed to accept it but I think that I am not ready for marraige though I am in my late 20's and I have been longing for a soul mate who I can make love with and live happily ever after with but don't know how to let go of all the negativity in my mind !!!! Please help me if u can and I forgot to mention that I am a girl and I am getting no marraige proposals as well

    • Wizard, it's not black magic, just a negative mindset that you have. I suggest seeing a therapist or counselor, perhaps twice a month, who can help you deal with your issues of self-esteem and pessimism. There are also motivational or self-help books that can help. Also please check out some of my articles on IslamicSunrays.com.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

      • But what about no marraige proposals my brother? I have heard and read somewhere that one can cast this spell on an unmarried girl so she gets no proposals......my situation is very complicated...that's why I keep getting thought that maybe black magic has been done on me

        • I can't answer your question about why you're not getting proposals without knowing more. Please log in and write your question as a separate post, and we will answer you in turn Insha'Allah.

          wael
          IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  21. Ok brother I will wait patiently as I have trusted this forum to make my visions clear for life !!!! I want to rinse off all my negative thoughts and start over again positively . I will be waiting for your answers and In Sha Allah I will seek light through your analysations

  22. It's taking you people really long! I keep checking my mail and find nothing. 🙁

    • hey sister Im not being rude or anything but there's many out of us out there just like you who's waiting everyone needs emergency help but these people are trying there very best to publish our posts quickly we should be grateful that they have time to make sites like this in first place and care to help each and other muslim brothers out there.

      just be patient dear in shaa allah with great patience greater things can happen I myself am waiting but I know its not as easy running sites like this the editors on here need a pat on the back for all the hard work they do for us mashallah.

      may Allah swt keep everyone on here happy and give them enough patience to deal with the situations there in .

  23. Ok brother

  24. Ok tell me is there any way through which I could come to know that am I cursed or not? How can I ask Allah to show me signs? I have asked in dua many times but Still I am very confused and unsatisfied

  25. my name is sundas Habib plz suggest me suitable gemstone which is good for memory and heart.actually I am religious and I want to develop routine so that I can pray 5 times a day and wish to memorize Quran but its normal now whatever I plan I never able to fullfil despite of struggling hard same is the case with my studies my fellows consider me ad very dumb person and I am always hatred I read about history of stones that's why I want your opinion I want to change myself...

    • Sundas, no gemstone can help your or harm you. It is shirk to believe such things. Just make dua' to Allah to help you, have a firm niyyah, and strive your utmost to accomplish your goals.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  26. There is no gemstone, dua, amulet...there is only FAITH IN ALLAH. It is that simple. Shirk/black magic/spells are time specific. Any spell or black/white magic is only open for a specific amount of time. Look at it this way.. the Jins only exist because Allah willed them thus. They are verily confused as are we, but Allah always sorts out the "madness" as HE chooses. But they cannot manifest your free will nor can they go against Allah. Furthermore, Shaitan exists ONLY because Allah allows him, and at no point is Shaitan more powerful than Allah unless WE as humans let him be. Therefore, black magic can only exist in our lives when we give it the power, jinns can only haunt us if we give them license to do so, shaitan can only tempt us if we allow him thus. It is faith and prayer to ALLAH that is the ONLY gemstone. HE alone is your protection. The more attention you pay to "black magic", "shirk", "shaitan" the less attention you have for Allah.

  27. Can black magic kill ?? Serious and authentic answers please ....as i need some hood guidance

  28. you should ignore them, those people will go to hell anyway, don't worry you are beautiful in and out, pray, ask help to Allah, read quraan, that's the only way. But ignore them, forget them for you they don't esxit anymore, good luck

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