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English Translation of the Dua for Istikhaarah

Dua for Istikhaarah

aoa.. i am a muslim girl.. i am in problem i want to know about the tabeer of istikhara..plz guide me in right side.. My mother got an istikhara for my marriage in day first she feel pleasent.. and in last day of istikhara she saw a dream.. mom says she saw there was a bowl(BOX) in box green grass but dry.. she put it and behind it there was something in white color.. then she saw a bafflow(COW) so far.. she put the grass and think to give bafflow for eaten..then she wake up....... after saw this dream mom feel so confused about dream then she concern an alam..

aalam said about tabeer .. he said this is good sign. . grass and white thing good sign and bafflow is the sign of religion strength.. becoz u use her milk and this is better in deen izafa... then mom confirm about proposal and engage.. final.. now i am disturbed either it is right or not.. so tell me and guide me either the tabeer is right or not? what was its tabeer?

i am waiting your response plz reply me soon thanks.. muslim sister


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  1. Assalaamualaikam

    Istikhara isn't a ritual that others do for you, it is a personal prayer between you and Allah, in which you ask Him to guide you to that which will be good for you in this life and the next, and to keep you away from things which would be harmful. You then trust that things will be as Allah wills; there doesn't have to be a dream to be interpreted or any other "sign".

    This website isn't a dream interpretation service, but we do have quite a lot of information about istikhara available on the site, so I would advise that you read this in order to learn more about istikhara.

    Midnightmoon editor

  2. Im sure your mum means well but you shouldn't rely on her to do the istikhaara for you. If youre old enough to get married, then youre old enough and im sure more than competent to do the istikhaara yourself.

    Good Luck

  3. Aim123, Salat-al-Istikhara is not based on dreams or dream interpretation. Please read our articles on Istikhara (links at the top of the page) to understand the proper way of understanding this salat.

    Wael Editor

  4. Salaam I have to rishtay n I really want to get married one of them but the other my family choose n I'm confused to wch I should choose or would be best for me in future..I already did ishtihara but the one I chose its bad for me..can I still go in that direction n inshallah it will work out or will it not 🙁 confused)

    • As-salamu alaykum sister. If you know that one is bad for you, then choose the other. No one can or will advise you differently.

      Wael Editor

      • Salaam but is there no way I can marry him..coz I've been chttn to him n e is a reality decent guy allhamdlila..n it's hard to let go of him..but my fam are happy eaither way I Choose coz they both related

  5. Assalamualekum warahmatullahe wabarakatuhu,

    I am doing istikhara for my marriage several times for the one i want in my life. he liked me and proposed me but now theres some problem in our life. when i did istikhara first time i saw myself in the white bridal dress infront of a sunrise window besides me standing the groom whom i dont see but feel the same person i did istikhara and then so many times i did istikhara for him i always saw white things. last time i did istikhara for him i saw four types of fruits in a tray 2 are Anjeer some one calls loud Anjeer but i dont pay attention to them and there is a pure white fruit which i am gazing and i pick up a fruit which is too much sweet tastes like Chikoo but still i gaze the white fruit.

    please guide me through this i want to spend my whole life with this person but not sure whats going on.

    • Salaams,

      Istikhara is not about dreams. Please see the link to the article about istikhara on the main page for more information. In short, if you feel good to marry this guy after making istikhara then go forward with confidence, trusting that Allah will facilitate it or hinder it depending on whether it's good for you or not.

      -Amy Editor

      • thanks for your reply.

        In real life i face so much hurdles though he has given me negative answer and has says someone else is there in his life. but as i mentioned each time i do istikhara i see purely white things or he himself in white colored dress it gives me hope still my heart says i am his future but in reality im totally disappointed.
        i dont have confidence enough to see him even though i have decided to spend whole life with him but things are not going right.
        i am confused about dreams and reality .

        coz whenever i do istikhara what

  6. ever i see in dream i get clear signs both dreams and reality.

  7. AoA
    my mother perform istakhara bcoz my brother want to start a business ... she saw a dream on 5th day of ostakhara that she entered home and 3 man were digging the coridoor of our home .. she asked y are u doing so they replied go inside aftr finishing this we will come n dig inside portion of house..
    plz guide

  8. Assalamoalaikum
    I am a guy and i am doing istikhara for my marriage to whome i love n so do she ...
    Its still in progress brother tiday it woul b my second night .... Last night i saw 2 dreams...
    In my frst dream wat happend i dont remember but i saw something blak n i woke up and slept again thn i saw my father pointing towards me n pointing me towards something i lookd towards that place n saw very bright coloured white light it was so bright tht i couldnt resist n i woke up and it was fajr prayer time n thn i offerd namaz ...
    What doesit means? It has some meaning??

    • Salat-al-Istikhara is not based on dreams or dream interpretation. Please read our articles on Istikhara (links at the top of the page) to understand the proper way of understanding this salat.

      Wael Editor

  9. Salam, I did Istikhara for my marriage proposal. I saw multiple signs in my dream. Some signs look positive and some look negative. I am completely confused. I saw a fresh big green plant with big white beautiful flowers. I was fascinating while seeing that plant. That was so beautiful and attractive. That plant i saw from my room's window. When i came downstairs from my room i saw several pairs of shoes. Each shoe pair was Red in color. A shoe pair was placed on every step of staircase. These red shoes were also so attractive and beautiful like Cinderella shoes. Then i came downstairs i saw some ghosts who were roaming here and there in my house. Those ghosts were wearing white dresses. It seems that they were good. But some of them were trying to scare me. But they didn't do anything except of gazing me. Then i saw that there were some ladies were sitting in my home who were not looking good by their character. I was sitting with them and there was a white egg in my hand. That egg broke up in my hand. And a Black liquid comes out from the Egg that makes my hands dirty. Then one of those ladies gave me a white tissue paper. I cleaned my hands with it. Then i saw a whole big roll of white tissue papers in my bag. I thought that i don't need such a big roll of tissue paper as this is more than enough for me. Then i went to a tissue papers shop to return that roll. But shop keeper asked me to give him 500 Rs. to take that tissue papers rolls back. That was so expensive. That's y i didn't return that roll and i kept it in my bag again. There are so many signs. Please guide me.

    • Salaams,

      We don't interpret dreams or advise it as a result of istikhara. Please read the istikhara article on the main page.

      -Amy Editor

  10. AOA...
    ek aur bar main ne ek rishta aya tha us per istakhara kiya tha....aur main ne deakha jin k ghar se rishta aya hai us larkay ki behan aur mah bhut khush hain mujh se.per achanak se deakhty hun k meri sis ki saas jo abh dunia main nai hai aty hain aur mujay kehty hain meray sath chen 1 chalo gi...mujay kuch kapray lainay hain...aur hm jab wahan jatay hain tou bachion k cute frak aur cheezain hoti hain....phir unki beti mujay lainay aty hain gari pe aur main un k sath jaty hoon k wo ghar drop ker dain gi....

  11. Assalamoalaikum! I did istikhara last night asking for if I should get married with a guy, he says that he loves me and I like him too, as I had a dream I saw a girl with red hairs and red meat, I am so confused since then and I need help. Should I do istikhara again to see the dream more clearly? Or should I just follow my heart?

    • Assalaamualaikam

      Please read the answers already given, and the articles on istikhara that are published on this site. Istikhara is not based on dream interpretation.

      Midnightmoon editor

    • i did istakhara for marriage proposal. the results was in my favour in positive way. now i ask you will i marry with that person ?? please ans me


  13. I did istekhara last night and i want its meaning

  14. i did istikhara for my a job in a different country ,.... in dream i saw my self n sis shooping n we went to a shop and bought two red travel bags.... i read somewhere red n black means NO... then i did istikhara to do job in my own country but i saw me and my brother going to pick my sister from her office... on the way we saw her waiting for us on road side... it was pitch black darkness there i could see my sister only no human no lights nothing ... it was alll silent n darkness there n i was worried for how long she had been waiting for us ....
    kindly plz guide me because i m v confused about the signs ...

  15. yeah i read the articles .... thankx... but i wana know does these colours have a definite meaning or not.... like white n green for yes rred and black for no??? or the whole istikhara depends on ur feelings ... ..... in this confused state can i repeat istikhara again ....

  16. For the purpose of earning by going to UK for which i have to take an english exam my mom did an istikhara. First day she saw someone asking for salt and second day someone asking to cook meat.
    I have failed the engliah exam thrice. And now im going to take a new endliah exam which is in dubai.

  17. As salaam alaikum

    I did istekhara for my new Project which is away from my home , i am married since 5 years and have 2 kids Alhamdulillah , for this project i have to move away from home for 6 months i was confused to take decision so i did istekhara in which i saw my second marriage . please help me to know is this sign of good or bad ? i read in few website its near to death or moving to new home which is authentic.

    • Istikhara is not based on dreams. That is a common misconception. Just make the best decision you can and trust that Allah is guiding you.

      Wael Editor

  18. First day I got a dream dat there's some another boy. Next day my Bf itself came in my dream. Fourth day his mom called me and later he called me
    Fifth day he texted me dat to reply to msg. Sixth day theres so strange dream dat theres some storm coming and all are running. Seventh day I didn't remember dream
    Can u Please help me wid dis

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