Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Thanks to Almighty, I have questions about my love, I love someone on Facebook and with the passage of time , we communicate each other through other applications like Whatsapp , Viber and Skype etc. We are both in love with each other. The issue is that we kiss each other but that is through apps not physically as we are very far from each other, However we are contended that we will marry with each other,

she is from other religion, unfortunatly, we involved in sex but that is done over the phone not physically at all. she wants to convert in islam if we will marry. but i am ashamed because of sex, as neither I control her nor I conrol myself in certians situtaions, I am in tense with this situation, I also try to leave her but don't know how we are connected. Please advice how will I stop those things and is that Sin too ,kissing and asking for the hug over the phone . I am very mcuh fituged with that , Hope Your anser will show me new path!!, thanks

Rizan

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  1. Salam Rizan,

    How old are you? Do you have a way to provide for this girl and a place for you two to live? What religion does she practice? What exactly are your intentions?

    If she has the intention of converting to Islam, she really should convert before you two get married and because she wants to (in other words, for the sake of Allah)...not just because she wants to be with you. I know and hear of people converting 1-2 years before marriage, in fact.

    If you are in a position to marry based on your answers, I would propose to her as soon as possible and in the meantime minimize contact and communication of all kinds.

    If you are not in a position to get marry, I would minimize all relations with her with the purpose of ultimately cutting ties with her completely...again, as soon as possible.

    I don't want to see either of you hurt too much, so this is important. I'm glad you wrote in.

    Allah knows best. Pray to Him and Inshallah things will be settled in the best way.

    Nor

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