How to maintain my husbands love and affection
I keep dreaming about being in a happy relationship
1) I want to know how to keep and maintain my husband love and affection till my death.?
2) I want to keep my husband and all surrondings in my mother in law home happy and
peaceful in which way?
3) I want to take gud name in my mother in law home how it is possible?
-allara
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Salaam Allara,
What a beautiful questions mashaAllah :0)
Everything anyone can say to you in advice is mere opinion - so everyone will have a different opinion on things.
My personal opinion is that the best way to maintain love and affection between each other is to work towards being the best of friends, to treat each other with love and respect (even during hard times) and to see each other as incredibly precious - something that needs to be taken care of and looked after. Being a friend means being honest and saying what needs to be said (even if, at times, it would be easier to not say it), doing what needs to be done (even if at times, it is easier to neglect it) and acting always in accordance with getting the outcomes you seek (such as love, peace, happiness and so on)
If you decide in yourself that "my environment will be filled with love and happiness" then your actions will naturally reflect it, and you will have this affect on all whom are around you.
Peace,
Leyla
Editor, Islamic Answers
how to maintain the love of your husband and other relatives?
easy, get Allaah to love you by geting closer to him, and Allaah will make those on earth love you.
Salaams sister Allara
There are lots of ways to keep your husband happy. Let me share with you a few on what works for me:
1. The first thing is you should understand your husband and obey him in every way except if he is asking you to do something which is haraam
2.Support your husband if he is going through a bad phase in life e.g bankruptcy or sickness
3.If he is angry wait for him to calm down- then discuss the matter with him.
4. Show respect to your husband's family and friends- welcome his family to your home with open arms. Give them gifts, phone his parents.
5. Keep the house clean. Take good care of the kids. Cook for him delicious food ( remember the way to a man's heart is through his stomach). Learn how to make all his favourite dishes. The best person to ask is his mom.
6.Most importantly- don't discuss any family affairs or quarells with anyone. Keep the secrets of the family- particulary intercourse or anything your husband does not want any one to know.
7. Try to look good for your husband at all times. Put on attractive clothes and sweet smelling perfumes at home. Change hairstyles and soften your voice when you speak to him.
8. Smile, smile, smile when you see your hubby. Give him a tight hug. Don't complain. Appreciate what Allah has given you.
Be grateful to your husband and your husband would love you more and he would probably try his best to please you...
I think respect, trust n loyalty cover all. Try 2 b there or him @ ol tyms. Respect his family espesh his mum and get closer to Allah for when the Almighty loves u , every one will follow suit.