He married me for my money.
Love or Money
assalam,
It's been 4 months since I got married, and now my husband feels that I am not good looking. Yes, he's fair and I'm wheatish, he is fat and I'm thin, he's tall and I'm a little short. He tells me that my dressing sense is not good. He at times make me feel insecure. He does not respect me nor my parents, and now I feel he doesn't love me-he married me because of my money.
He is basically money minded and wants to become rich very soon. When he spends money over me he feels like his money is getting wasted. He tells me he is facing loss because of me, and that I am giving him trouble in his life. At times he treats me ill, but I'm not his maid I'm his wife. He does not realize this.
Please give me daus to read so that he loves me and hereafter to have a good married life.
jazakallah,
-shaista
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ASSALAMALIKUM
SHOCKING JUST 4 MONTHS AND YOU ARE FACING THIS REALLY FEEL SORRY-
I THINK THIS PERSON MIGHT NOT BE RELIGIOUS BECAUSE IF HE WAS HE WOULD HAVE NOT
DONE THISTO YOU-
YOU HAVE MANY POWERFUL TOOLS DONT WORRY YOU CAN MEND HIS WAYS WITH DUA AND AND SALAH-
Islâm Teaches us How to Sincerely Pray to Allâh to Bestow Us Beneficial Knowledge...
Dua is submitting and asking Allah for your needs. It is the most important tool available to a Muslim. Through it, a Muslim strengthens his or her relationship with the Almighty. It is unfortunate that many of us struggle though life and use all means available to us in this life to resolve our situations but neglect to ask Allah. Dua can change the Divine decree and relieve distress.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:
Nothing can change the Divine decree except dua. (Narrated by Ahmad, Ibn Maajah, and al-Tirmidhi.)
He also said:
O slaves of Allaah, you must make dua. (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi)
It was narrated that Suhayb said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for all his affairs are good, and this applies to no one except the believer. If something good happens to him, he gives thanks, and that is good for him, and it something bad happens to him, he bears it with patience, and that is good for him.”(Narrated by Muslim, 2999
1. It was reported that the Prophet (PBUH) used to recite this Dua:
“O Allah, I hope for Your mercy. Do not leave me to myself even for the blinking of an eye (i.e. a moment). Correct all of my affairs for me. There is none worthy of worship but You.” (Abu Dawud 4/324, Ahmad 5/42. Al-Albani graded it as good in Sahih Abu Dawud 3/959.)
In al-Saheehayn it was reported from Ibn ‘Abbaas that the Messenger of Allaah (Peace and Blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to say, when he felt distressed:
“La ilaaha ill-Allaah al-‘Azeem ul-Haleem, Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb il-‘arsh il-‘azeem, Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb is-samawaati wa Rabb il-ard wa Rabb il-‘arsh il-kareem”
“There is no god except Allaah, the All-Mighty, the Forbearing; there is no god except Allaah, the Lord of the Mighty Throne; there is no god except Allaah, Lord of the heavens, Lord of the earth and Lord of the noble Throne.” (Al-Bukhari 8/154, Muslim 4/2092, )
3. It was reported from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (Peace and Blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to say, when something upset him:
“Yaa Hayyu yaa Qayyoom, bi Rahmatika astagheeth (O Ever-Living One, O Everlasting One, by Your mercy I seek help).”
It was reported from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No person suffers any anxiety or grief, and says:
Allaahumma innee ‘abduka wa ibn ‘abdika wa ibn amatika, naasiyati bi yadika, maadin fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka, as’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw ista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘andak an taj’ala al-Qur’aana rabee’ qalbi wa noor sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba hammi’
“O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your female slave, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every Name belonging to You which You named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety”
but Allaah will take away his sorrow and grief, and give him in their stead joy.” (Ahmad 1/391
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ASSALAMALAIKUM RUQIYA MATTER IS HERE-
RUQYA ON THE HOUSE.....
Ruqya in Arabic means healing, the Islamic way according to the sharia, only Qur'an and sunnah,
applying the Qur'an THE WORDS OF ALLAH SWT-
We are told in the Qur'an that Prophet Ibraheem, alayhis salam, said, "And when I am ill, it is He Who cures me." [26:80]
The Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wasallam, said:
"There is a remedy for every malady, and when the remedy is applied to the disease it cures it with the permission of Allah, the Exalted and Glorious." (Muslim) Also, the Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, said,
"Make use of the two remedies: honey and the Qur'an." (Tirmithi)
Have a spray bottle. fill it up with water prefer mineral water.
with the bottle open put your mouth as close to the top of the bottle and recite sourah al Fatiha then blow in the water. Ayat al kursee then blow in the water. Then do the same with sourah al ikhlass, al falaq, al Nass.
close your bottle your water is ready.
go to every room close the door if the room and slightly open the window of that room you in.
recite loudly sourah Fatiha 7 times.
recite aya al kursee 7 times.
recite sourah al zalzalah 7 times.
straight away as reciting the athan you should spray with that water you prepared every corner of that room.
never spray without reciting the athan.
when finished spray all the corners of the room close the window and do the same with every other room in your home. don't do the toilet. when every room is done play sourah al baqarah in each room.
make sure your pray the nafl salat in your home. As the prophet said :
Don't turn your homes to grave yards not praying salat in your homes.
(Meaning tahajud and optional prayers)
Sahih bukhari and MUSLIM
Salaams,
You can make dua to Allah that your husband love you and want you for the right reasons. But if it happens that your husband continues to use you and degrade you, do you want to continue the marriage? If he's using you for your money, it's obvious what he's getting out of the marriage. But what are you getting out of it? Personally I wouldn't advise to stay married to someone who is belittling you and emotionally abusing you, while you in turn finance him.
-Amy
IslamicAnswers.com Editor