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Marrying a man who convert to Islam just to get married with Muslim girl

Islam and Christianity

Alslamu alykom

Dear shaikh ,

i'm so confused about something happening to me, i met a Christian man and he is a very good man, i loved him so much and now he want to get married with me

he said he will convert to Islam just to get married with me while he is not 100% convinced about Islam yet ,  i was about to accept that in the beginning and hoping that i will change him to be a good Muslim after married and take the honer of that  instead of be a Muslim by name only , i know its not easy but i think that a man who change his religion because of women can change another things with little help , he already read Quran and he know a lot of things about Islam maybe more than me while i was born as a Muslim ,

my question is, is it Halal if i marry him? if i think  inside  my self will work hard to make him a good Muslim after we get married ?

Thank you

shadeen

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  1. Waaaleikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

    "he said he will convert to Islam just to get married with me while he is not 100% convinced about Islam yet"

    Sister, that is a huge red flag. If he converts, he must do it for the sake of Allah, not your sake. If he doesn't really believe then he cannot be a Muslim. Stay away from him ukhti. Cut all contact from non-mahrams. Socializing with non-mahrams is haram.

  2. No oviously the nikkah is not valid..this is harm and very dangerous for you..you must learn your Islam properly and understand your purpose in life. ...If you chose to live a harm life style it's your loss.And I can assure you that success in this temporary life will be cursed..Forgive me for harshness but it is very serious and the Muslim world wanders why Allah doesn't help them

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