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My wife wants to kill me

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I meet a french women 17 years older then me on facebook i marry with her after 3 years i come france i see her,three kids are not good with me they treat me, badly, i go in her family they treat me badly my wife convert to muslim and when she,was comming my country to meet me everything was fine but since i come here everyrhing change i feel i have,black magic even here muslims they dont like me like someone say to thembad about me i go mosque many time near to my home they see me weirdly and police follow me my wife nehabiour is changed im too much down i am only one son of my family and three sister i have ao much responsibilties for my family i have one daughter with her i was beaten by muslim boys few months ago and this boys was friend of my wife sister husband im in too much pain depressd i dun do job i dont have any thing i feel Allah is not listening me ifeel my wife took insurance on my name to kill me and take money i dont know what i do

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  1. Life and religion is a. Choice this is best for you to decide l. If u think GOD don't listen then who will?

  2. Why not divorce her? People (Marry) and (Divorce), that's part of life and the "Tests of Life that Allah (SWT) has put forth. You're not happy with your wife (Correct), and this has made you unhappy with your life (Correct) and all of this has lead you to start doubting that "Your Rabb, Your MAKER Isn't listening to you"? So, why put yourself through all this stress? You know "Allah (SWT), Is listening to you" and "Knows that which you're thinking and feeling and going through", so "Don't doubt that HE Isn't hearing you". This Is life and as such (We all get put to tests) and situations (We wish we never were In), But "You're In It", Now (Since you put yourself In It), It's time that you get yourself "Out of It".

    P.S:When you make comments that you think your "Wife has put a hit on you to claim the Insurance money", You don't seem all that rational and Sane.

    I wish you the best, and "Insha-Allah, Allah (SWT) will find a path for you out of your current situation".

  3. her,three kids are not good with me they treat me, badly, i go in her family they treat me badly my wife ..........e i feel i have,black magic even here muslims they dont like me like someone say to them bad about me i go mosque many time near to my home they see me weirdly and police follow me my wife nehabiour is changed im too much down i am only one son of my family and three sister ....... i was beaten by muslim boys few months ago and this boys was friend of my wife sister husband im in too much pain depressd

    Find a job. talk to a psychologist who can speak your language.

  4. Assalaamualaikum

    It sounds like you're going through a really difficult time at the moment - you've got married, moved to a new country... these are big changes.

    I honestly think that you should speak to a doctor about this situation. You're describing feeling a lot of fear and stress and depression - a doctor will inshaAllah be able to put you in touch with a counsellor who can help you cope with this.

    Sometimes, when people are under a lot of stress, we can start to believe people are against us. People in the street, the authorities, even our loved ones sometimes! And that can make it even harder to ask for help. I know that you might not agree with me on this, but it may well be that your wife and other people aren't trying to hurt you, that instead you're interpreting things this way because you're under so much stress that your mind assumes the worst of the people around you. If this is the case, then inshaAllah getting the right support from a doctor could make this better.

    Midnightmoon
    IslamicAnswers.com editor

  5. And at 1st place why did you even marry her when you knew she is 17yrs older to you ? :O
    was it just to go to France ?
    Where are you from ? Pakistan ?
    Why are the cops following you even if you go to the mosque ? Are you black listed in some or the other way ?

    You dont seem to have a medical condition. Its just that one cannot clap with a single palm. So also consider what mischief have you been upto. And if you are not upto any mischief.. Than divorce her.. leave france and go back to your country with your daughter and settle there.. apart from doing any more nuisance on facebook.

  6. Assalamualaikum
    This is not your fault. Leave your wife she is a horrible woman and is bringing you down. May Allah keep you safe.

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