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Need a dua for my friend to come back to me

Salam ... there is no name so I'm female ...

I was messaging my friend and i wrote this sentence with these symbols " _ _ _" means dash dash dash ... i didn't know that she will take as a bad thing, she started that i don't wanna talk to u and go away you've crossed the boundaries and all ... And im telling her continuously that it was an accident, i didn't do that by myself as in wasn't in my mind that she'll take as a wrong ... but she said that it was extreme and how can i forget that what did ya did with me ...

But i told her it was an accident, Didn't know that she will take like that way, If i knew why would i do that ... She is not listening to me and not talking to me ... But im convincing her and i will do anything for her and want her back at any cost because it happened by mistake and she's leaving me for this reason, this incident that happened with her...

This is not Fair na that she's leaving like that, i didn't know that she will take that way, if i knew that i wouldn't do that ... I'm helpless I love her and i loved her more than myself and still i do ... she's my best friend more than that ... And i want her back as soon as possible .. i can't live without her ... PLEASE HELP ME !!

I want her back and im convincing her that she listens to me and come back to me and be like we were before as soon as possible ... Can she come back to me ? Plz help me ... i will do anything ... Reply me soon as possible ... ๐Ÿ™ :'(


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  1. Waalaikumsalam sister. I'm sorry to hear what you are going through. I can understand how you feel as I've ever been in your position when I unintentionally hurt my close friend. My communication with her was bad dear and I didn't notice that I'd hurt her. There was only hush between us. However, Alhamdulillah We now still can be like we used to be.

    In your case is a misunderstanding. You meant that symbol as nothing but she meant it something bad. I think the case is not only about the symbol you wrote sist but the things you were telling her then you also added that symbol. She might really mean that as something else. Try to recall back.

    So now, what you need to do is try to talk to her, try to make her understand, tell her that you don't want to this misunderstanding ruin you friendship with her, tell her that she is mean to you and how will you want to say something bad to her if you knew how she mean that symbol. You should also ask for Allah's help to turn her heart from anger into forgiveness. Allah is the one who has control over our heart. He will In Shaa Allah make her back to you sist. Hm, but one thing, don't say that you can't live without her, that's wrong dear, the one you can't live without is only Allah. Indeed, we love our parents, brothers, sisters, friends and many others but remember, our love for Allah and His messenger has to be greater than our love for them.

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  2. Salam,

    sorry i was kinda u knw recently happened and so much tension and i really felt at that time .... Yea im makin Dua that i didn't do anything wrong so why like this, why happening like this ?? im askin ALLAH cuz Allah know's i didn't do anything wrong and just dnt get it why happening like this ....

    Just Prayin that she understand what im sayin ... I've told her sis but she's not gettin it ... i didn't meant that way but she's not listening .... Sister please pray for me that she comes back to me and be like she was ... i want that what we were before ... again i messaged her she said u dnt have any rights to say this and that but im not in a serious mood or somethin just making her knw that i didn't do that ...

    Its true i send that msg BUT that symbol didn't knw she'll take that way and i just wrote it as in meaning less didn't know she'll take that way .... Pray for me sis, make Dua that she gets it what im tryin to say ... I guess sis may be it will take time, am i rite or wrong that it will take time ? Hmmm Just pray for me even im also makin dua that she Gets It ... and be like we were ....

  3. Salam,

    Sister.. I have been through these things before. I have learnt several things in life and my experience. First: im being truthful... She IS reading your comments. Whatever you say she will hear you. But first, think about allah. I made so many duas about life. Some werent accepted but thats life! And it is said that: 'allah loves hearing a muslims voice in duas and prayer etc. and will accept the dua (maybe inshallah) since that muslim prayed to allah. People go in the wrong. Lead them to the right path. Friends are important in life but dont let the problems get to you. It will affect your thinking and more. Please please please dont let this get to you sister... It will hurt you and inshallah pray. Cry. Your friend will come back to you... ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. yep praying and offering salah .... i also learnt many thing and one most important thing is Patience ๐Ÿ™‚ ... im having faith in Allah and hope that she come back to me the way we were ...

  5. Salam I've just had an argument with my friend and it was about something I said threw inbox to my other friend I said to her I felt like one of my friends was being fake towards me and she's really competitive and now my so called friend doesn't want to talk to me it's going to be very awkward in school and I can't be dealing with this stress even though it may be pathetic? I would appreciate the advice right at this moment salams

    • "No name", I don't really understand who's who in this scenario. Who is angry? The friend you texted? Why? Or some third party? And if so how did she find out? And is she actually the one you were talking about?

      Anyway, please log in and write your question as a separate post, and explain it more clearly please. Feel free to use fake names to avoid being identified.

      Wael Editor

  6. Can anyone give me a dua or wazifa to be friend with someone who hates. I said to this girl I like you and I didn't no she would act like that and since then she hasn't been talking to me. We really use to get along together and I tried some ways to make her be friend but now she hates me more. I'm being nice and she being bad to me. It now been around 8 months since we were close friend. I regret saying that I like you to her, so can someone help me, I just want to be friends again, every single time I see her I always think about the good time we had. I just wanna be friend with her, can someone help please.

  7. I'm not saying we close we just normal before and have u got any idea to be friends again

  8. is there a wazifa or dua to be friends again with someone who hates you

  9. there is no point I she really was your friend then she would have never let you go and tbh if she wants to come back she will just give her time and some space ๐Ÿ™‚
    hope everything goes well

  10. Hi I am a 12 year old girl I don't know why Allah has wrote in his book that I would have to suffer so much I had a great muslim friend she still is but she always has fight with me

    • Hunia, As-salamu alaykum,

      What is the source of the fights between you and your friend. If you do not treat each other with respect, that's a problem. Friends can disagree but they must always treat each other respectfully.

      Try to pinpoint the issues that cause fights between you, and avoid those issues if you can.

      Wael Editor

  11. Don't be obsessed

  12. salam
    guys i am suffering from the same problem i have hurted my freind he is very dear to me i dnt wanna lose him at all its all my fault i was very possasive n use to fight wit him alot n then he was so frustated he said that its over now i apologized to him alot made cards for him n wrote alot of things in that he did stick on his point bt somehow he said after the semster break of 2 months he will be fine bt m nt sure abt it mjy esa lag raha h k may be he asked for time so that he can live wdout me n also i can strt living wdout wich i dont want at any cost he is very dear to me n very important to me i want him back the way we use to be together plz do pray for me k wo jald sy jald sahi hojaye plz plz my exams are going on n m hell distrubed that i can not concentrate on anything m so worried i just cant sleep n eat n cry most of the time, i also dont live wd my family i am out of city n he is the only freind i have i dont wanna lose him plz do pray for me plz ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ™

    • Salam,
      There's no such Dua to become friends with someone again but still there's dua for forgiveness and there's other ways which you could ask Allah to grant your wish:
      1) praying (compulsory) the best thing to do and ask Allah
      2)spreading the word Islam

      Also give your friend some time it can't always be right the next day, give her some time and let her realise what happened. This is happening to me now the same situation but I'm giving her some time (my friend) and also this happened to my other friend but she gave her other friend some time and then her friend realised what happened and now they're talking to each other as if they're relatives. Pray to Allan which is the main thing remember that.

  13. Asalmualikum brothers and sisters..I fell out with my best friend of 5-6 years about5 years ago. He was my bestfriend we did everything together spent everyday together. He was my brother he would do eid with my family. I met another guy who I naturally became close too. My friend felt left out I treated him badly. He ended our friendship 6 years ago and I've tried to patch things up with him but he's ended up blocking me. I miss him everyday and he was apart of my life. Please someone tell me what to do. There's no way he'll make up with me.

  14. i am just confused and shocked..its not happened first time but a series of things happening from many years...till that i am alone or in isolation not in any relation terms etc and nothing desired to achieve regarding career and all till that my life going well nothing wrong happened and all these thing tried to occupied sapce in my mind but the moment i get closed to all these or start desiring than also things start getting comes towards me in form of happines success growth fame etc and suddenly when i become habitual of all these on that moment everything suddenly vanish or start going away instantly ...i cant able to understand the reason of what actually happening to me....on last moment every time i hv to suffered....plz tell me any Dua to solve it..

  15. Salem......I'm female and my friend is female and I really love her and I care alot to her but her famliy won't send her out and even they won't allow the calls to her. She is good girl and she Care's me she is very close to me and my mom. I wish she would be my own sister we were a best friend in the camps we was rocking,enjoying,we were eating toghter we were laughing toghter we was very happy in ourlifes and then holidays came last day we cried and then for holidayholidays she went to her grandmothers home to other city. Now it has been 3months even she didn't mgsed and even not calls. But tried to call her then get uncle lefted the call said not talk ever in her life I don't know what happend to herher and I m sure she is in problem pls pls pls pls pls help me and say me the dua for my friendship pls say me........

  16. Assalamu Aleikum I am a girl and im live in portugal, I have a best friend she is a sister of my sister-in-law and and she live in another country. I was not very well on the way so I had my bad habits and I met my bestie at my brother's wedding we met 1 year and we get better friends and we talked and we join together and I really like her but then we started to figure out a lot I talked a little bad she was upset and I said sorry I solved if and we were well and there were disappointments and to be well but normal description and then but then there was one day she started to walk away from me and I started to ask questions but she did not like it but I did because I'm away from her and wanted to know why she was taking me away but later I knew that my best friend spoke ill of me to my sister-in-law and I was very bad, I started to cry I said badly to her and I was bad but then I saw that I can not be without her and I asked for I lost tw but we'll be fine but she did not want more more I asked so much after 2 months and she agreed to be a best friend, but I said badly. It was not because I wanted to hurt her. I was talking because I was angry or bad, but she should know and I did not feel bad about it, and I apologized. well I annoyed her and had our jokes and she sometimes took to bad and did not tell me and I even changed because she asked alhamdullillah I'm already on the right track and I'm feeling good but, now she's upset with me and she does not want any more my friendship and she said that I am bad person and that I manipulate the people but this is not true I really like her and she dont need my friendship and this broke my heart i talk to her she say she decided and she dont need me anymore, she is sister for me and I want her back and plss make dua for me for her to be my best friend again and we to be well.

  17. Salam. I had a best friend and she just broke friendship with me and blocked me on Wattsapp. I really loved her as a close friend. I really want her back. Itโ€™s like I canโ€™t live without her. Iโ€™ve tried calling her from different numbers but she just ignores me. Pls pray for me she comes back to me. I need her back in my life. I always cry to sleep and cry when I wake up and In the day too. Pls pray for me. She comes back to me. Pls

    • Assalamu alaikum ...Iam a girl and my best friend is also a female ..our friendship is from 6 years alhamdullillah , she was fine with me very close caring and studying in college suddenly as soon as she completed her studies she just changed herself and started ignoring me , i was hurted very much and i asked her but she was getting irritated frequently and blocked me in WhatsApp and she blocked my number as well...i tried contacting from my mom number she didn't respond ,in all my problems she was with me everytime i need her desperately... please help me out with dua so that i read that dua n bring back my bestfriend please help me out

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