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Need advice, I’m tired for crying

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Assalamualaikum. Hi there. I'm 18 right now alhamdulillah i just finish my highschool. Im typing here for asking your advise. I know my age right now is some of teen phase. Like and love someone. But i do love some of my male friend but for sure im gonna be quiet. The saddest part is when he was really close with me and he was admiring my friend. Just like in the drama. The most pain was he love to talk about her to me. Its really... help me for nope give too much hope from man. And how to take care of my haert. Thanks a lot ♡ may Allah bless you

anis shaakirah


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  1. My dear sister,

    Alhmadulillah you seem like a mature and wise Muslim sister, which is really good. You understand that teens goes through this phase. but dear sister, as Muslims we are not allowed to have friends of opposite gender at all. This does not mean you can't interact with them. You can but you have to be always very FORMAL. No sweet smiles and no sweet talks and no socialising (lunch, dinner, cinema, bowling etc) with the opposite gender who is not your Mahram.

    I used to go to mixed school, mixed college, of course mixed university and now mixed work environment, but as Muslim we need to be very professional. So please train yourself to be good Muslim girl. Try to focus on your five daily prayers and learn more about your beautiful faith, Islam. And also focus on your secular knowledge (academics).

    RESERVE YOUR HEART ♥ FOR YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND, in Shaa Allah. Don't give your time away to random boy. Keep distance from your non Mahrams.

    Take care of yourself. Don't slip xxx

  2. In islam we our muslims and we have a purpose and a responsibility in life .We most obey Allah and the teachings of Myhammad who is our role model guide.....MY SISTER THIS HURT IS THE RESULT OF FOLLOWING SHAITAN. THATS WHY IN ISLAM ALLAH WANTS BEST FOR US. HE DOESNT WANT US TO GET HURT LOSE OURSELVES IN THIS TEMPORARY WORLD!! YOU HAVE TO THINK AND LEARN YOUR ISLAM CORRECTLY OR ELSE YOU WILL REGRET IT BECAUSE SHAITANS PLANS IS A SLOW PATIENT ONE.HE WANTS TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY AND PURITY.SHAITANS JOB IS 24HRS 7 DAYS A WEEK NO STOP DAWAH.ALWAYS INVITING TO SIN SIN SIN SO YOU CAN END UP IN HELL. TODAYS UMMAH IS SO WEAK.JUST LOOK AT THE CONDITION OF PEOPLE.....DIVORCED, KIDS OUT OF WEDLOCK, CHEATING DRINKING SMOKING , LOTS OF DRUGS ANTI -DEPRESSANTS. SISTER WIthout Allah you will not succeed.so change your life around become good dress modest go meet sisters who are involved with the mosque.Help eveyone visit the sick and be dutiful to your parents!! 5 times salah is obligatory on every male or female.This is not a choice.Master this !!
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  3. Dear Sister

    Life without a spouse is like a ship traveling through a storm(physical attraction) ridden region of sea. The

    wisdom of sailor keeps the ship away from storms, while the strength and durability of ship(that comes from

    prayer) gives a chance to survive the unexpected storm.

    Take Care

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