Need Islamic type of help for love marriage
Assalam o alaikum.....
Im a Muslim girl and I met an Muslim guy on Facebook. . .
he s very pious...
We both want to marry each other , the problem is I can't tell to my parents because I have fear that they will say no because distance is too long....
please tell a dua , how to convince my parents. ...
jazak Allah
khushboo
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Fb is full of rubbish dear sister, plenty of cons on there. Seen and heard of plenty lives messed up ,try Muslim dating site if your thinking of marriage.
Please don't waste your time with people who are behind Internet they look for fools and girls are easily fooled.
You should treat this like a proper suitor. Have your parents talk together determine how life is going to work out for you too. You know you two chat real well on fb but now you have figure out what else you're good at when you're offline, married, raising kids, splitting up chores.
Tell a Dua? My sister the chances of finding a male online or vice versa is a big rik!!! without seeing him in person and to ask questions on regards of his likes and dislikes and his body expressions is important.There alot of fake people who only want to sleep with a person.Dont say i know everything or say that he is pious. In fact pious people dont do this online socializing. Because when you look at person of opposite sex once Allah forgoves but a second look becomes dangerous.Feelings are created and lust creeps in.I know for i have some experience in black arts and how Shaitan work.My advice is if you are interested tell your parents and ask that you would like to meet him.But if Allah doesnt put in there hearts then Allah knows what is best for you.....and you have to rely on him. There is somethings that come to mind Do you have a career can you be independant financially are you praying 5 times a day and reading quran keeping away from all haram because if you dont ......You will never be successful no matter if you have all the wealth in the world.Allah will fill your life with many problems until you are dead!!Success is only in obeying and fullfilling the commandments of Allah through Muhammad S.A.W. And dont think marriage is fun .It is definately another test.The fact is 3/4 or more divorce or living because of the kids......Of course it sounds nice and happy begining but after that day you will know were your life will end up .Just take a look around you in detail?????Wakeup to the reality
May God Bless You Sister.
First of all sister, Islam is not against love. If you found someone best suited like Khadeeja (r.a) spouse Prophet found, then dont try to build a relationship. Instead talk to your parents straight away and make your relationship halal.
Islam prohibited all the relationships prior marriage. So there is no question of help comes in love marriage. But still there is a solution for the problem caused by crossing boundaries of islam.
Yet one thing sister. Ofcourse I have no right to judge the particular person you found. But food for your thoughts. IT IS YOU BY CHANCE. NOT BY DECISION. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN SOMEONE ELSE IF THINGS WOULDN'T HAVE WORKED WITH YOU.
Allah knows the best and he is be best planner. And islam is all about submitting your will to Allah and not about running behind your wills. SO SISTER SOLUTION IS SIMPLE..
1. STOP THE RELATIONSHIP AND REPENT ALLAH FOR THE HARAM RELATIONSHIP YOU HAD. HOPE YOU KNOW THE CONDITIONS OF REPENTANCE.
2. WORSHIP ALLAH. CONCENTRATE MORE ON YOUR SALAH. NEVER MISS A SALAH.
3. PRAY ALLAH TO GIVE A BETTER REWARD FOR KEEPING AWAY FROM HARAM RELATIONSHIP. SISTER, ITS ALLAHS CHOICE HE MAY GIVE you SOMEONE BETTER OR HIMSELF AS YOUR SPOUSE BECOZ FOR HIM THERE ARE NO BARRIERS.
For a believer, If Allah takes away something from him he will convince himself that, whatever he lost wasnt suited for him.
BUT REMEMBER SISTER, DONT BE OPTIONAL IN THE ABOVE COMMENTS. FOLLOW EVERY WORDS. MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU SISTER.