Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Once again broken so much

Brother and sister, boy and girl, children

I have only one brother and he is just 4 years old. He had open heart surgery when he was born and recently the doctor told us that he needs to have another open heart surgery soon. I am so broken because I don't want to go through the whole process all over again.

We are Mashallah a good practicing family, we make our obligatory prayers on time, give zakat and so forth but I don't know why we are being tested a lot with everything. I don't want to lose hope or faith in Allah but I am becoming very weak. I can't take anymore. I have been through a lot, it hurts so much and I still don't know what to do except pray, pray and pray and hope that one day we are all going to be better off.

I don't want to lose my brother, he means a lot to all of us and especially my mum, she will die if something happens to him.

Can you all (whoever reads this post) please Pray for us and my brother so that we get through this difficult phase. Please remember me in your prayers and make dua for me so that I stay strong and don't lose faith.

Thanks to All of You.

~ Yeh Alive

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  1. Insha Allah I will keep your brother in my prayers.
    Please takecare of yourself and your mother too.

  2. As salamu alaykum, Yeh Alive,

    I acknowledge your suffering and your´s family suffering, Insha´Allah, you and your loved ones will be in my prayers.

    Just let me remember tyou to live the now, enjoy and treasure your nows, insha´Allah, that will ease the pressure of that possible future, and will nurture the family´s Heart with memories of unconditional Love, the kind of love that heals, insha´Allah.

    All my Unconditional Love,
    María Editor

    • Asalamu alaikum, yeh alive
      May Allah SWT grant shifa to your brother. May Allah SWT remove all your trials and tribulations and make your life easy. Inshallah you and your family will be in my prayers. Don't lose hope in your Dua. Just keep on asking Allah SWT.
      If possible try to watch this video
      Lots of love
      your sister

  3. Place your right hand on his head and read

    “Allahumma Rabban-Nass, Adh-hibil-Ba’ss Washfi Anta-Shaafi La shifa’an illa shifa’uk Shifa’an La Ughadiru Saqaman” (Bukhari)
    "O Lord of the people, remove this pain and cure it, You are the one who cures and there is no one besides You who can cure, grant such a cure that no illness remains". x3

    Putting your hand on the sickened person’s painful area and recite the 3 Quls. (Ikhlass, Falaq, Annass) (Bukhari)

    Putting your hand on the sickened person’s forehead and say: “Bismillahi Yubreek Min Kulli Daa’in Yashfeek Wa Min Sharri Hassidin Idha Hassad Wa Min Sharri Kulli Dhi ‘Ayn (Muslim)

    I don't have the translation for the last recitation.

    I suggest you this on yourself too, and anyone else, so you do not suffer so much.

    And always remember "Innal'Lillah he wa inna ilaihe rajioon", in all walks of life.
    "Who, when a misfortune overtakes them, say: 'Surely we belong to Allah and to Him shall we return'." al-Baqarah 2:156".

    May Allah offer shifa to your brother and all your family.

  4. Dear sister,

    I pray that Allah swt gives you and your family patience and heals your brother. I pray that the operation goes well. Ameen.My thoughts and prayers are with you dear sister and I will InshaAllah remember you and your family in my duas.

    Don't forget that any hardship your family goes through will be not be wasted. Allah will reward you and your family for your patience little sister. I hope this is a comfort to you InshaAllah.

    Love and duas
    Sara Editor

  5. my prayers are for you and your brother. may allah grant health to this little angel. ameen. just going to offer namaz , inshallah will pray for you.

  6. Dear Sister,

    Allah is with you, dont worry.. Your brother would come out of it all happy and healthy..
    Duas are the only weapons given to muslims.. we can fight any discomfort or distress with it..
    Ill pray for your family and bro..

    do not lose heart..
    Allah bless you!!

  7. Assalamualaikum ,
    Dear Sister,
    I pray and hope Inshallah that your Brother's surgery is successful .
    Always remember all your hardships will be rewarded . I feel your pain as my dad also underwent through it. But Allhamdullilah he's much better now . So Inshallah although this time for you people will be difficult but then he will be fine.
    I will remember you and your family in my Prayers.

  8. My dear sisters,

    When i read your post i almost cried. If i feel like that while reading it, how would you feel...

    My dear sister..please never ever loose hope in Allah. This again is an test and you will insha'Allah pass.
    My Allah bless your brother and may the operation go well.

    Dear sister, you can go trough this. Please dont loose hope.
    We are with you. Reaaly, my prayers are with you.
    May Allah bless you and your family with health, imaan and wealth insha'Allah.

    Take a look at this. It always cheers me up.

    Take care. Bless you all.

  9. I read something lately which changed my life...sad that I came across this so late in my life:

    (Not exactly worded) "What Allah takes, or gives you, belongs to Allah"... the key words for me were the last three, which say that it was never yours in the first place.

    Sad but now the way i look at life, everything belongs to Allah, what you get or lose, was never yours.

    May Allah reward you for your patience.

  10. my friends my 5 yrs old sister is having an open heart surgery she had this when she was born then again when she was 2yrs then again when she was 4 yrs in every yrs it happended 2 times and now again shes having on 27 3 2012 pls remember her in your prayers pls

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