Will Allah Protect Me and My Family From My Past?
Asalamualaikum brother and sister,
i am new in this site was searching for some Islamic solution and alhumdulillah I found this site in one search!!
I am a married women have two kids alhumdulillah my husband is perfect man and loves his kids and me more then anything. But I am in big trouble now. When I was teenage I was bad girl used to have boyfriends and had a serious trouble with a guy as well then my eye opens that that is not the life I wanted to be in then I got married pray(not everyday) 🙁 take care of my kids husband so on but suddenly my horrible past is coming to my life though I did ignored - my husband can't know anything. He will be shock if he finds out. I don't want to say what's the problem as I am really ashamed all I want that if there is any dua to protect from that evil thing also I started to pray regular now as I am scared my past will harm my married life.. Will Allah save me?
i am so afraid!!
lisa
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It only your prayers that can save you.....I will be very glade if yu can be serious with your prayers
Inshallah
WalakumAsalm sister,
Can you please elaborate a bit more. Is anyone from your past relations ithreatening or blackmailing you? Or is it something else? You donot have to go in details but it will be more easy to advise in effective way.
Nothing to add brother/sister he is actually blackmailing with my picture which he edited and made it nasty though he is not in touch with me but one of his friend know me and he is my husband friend brother that's why I am stressed that he will find me where I live and may cause problem that's why u very verry scared.
Waalaikum Salam warahmatullah wabarakatuhu, sister, you just need to keep on praying, Ask for forgiveness and protection. Allah will help and protect u and your family inshaAllah.
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Abu Abdul Bari
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Life is is not a bed of roses sister strive hard and seek Allahs guidance and ask for forgiveness till death sure Allah loves to help his believer who ask from their heart...
Thank you sister I will keep your word in my mind and strive hard.
....also I started to pray regular now as I am scared my past will harm my married life.. Will Allah save me?
Alhamduillah, I am happy you are praying regularly Masha'Allah. Sometimes Allah test us and because of that test we get closer to Him, which in my opinion, the test is actually one of the biggest blessings. Anyways, keep making dua and seeking help from Allah. InshaAllah, everything will be fine. Your pass cant harm you unless Allah says.
Assalaamualaikam
If this person from your past is threatening or blackmailing you, then you might wish to consider involving the authorities (depending on where you live) or having it pointed out to this person that they may be breaking the law.
Your husband sounds like a good man, Alhamdulillah, so if you are concerned about the person from your past revealing unpleasant things, it may be worth letting your husband know that this person seems to dislike you for some reason and is making you upset. You would not need to go into details of past sins, but your husband has made a commitment to support and protect you, so if you are afraid of this person, he should inshaAllah prioritise your wellbeing and stand up for you.
Alternatively, if you are able to have civil contact with the person (in Islamically permissible circumstances, of course), you could tell them that you have put the past behind you and they should too - this life is too short to spend it obsessing over the past or trying to hurt people, so this other person really needs to stop wasting time and work on improving their own deen and repenting for their sins.
Midnightmoon
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many of us have bad past pray to Allah He'll set everything alright.if he is black mailing u tell ur hubby before he knows from any other source which may be very bad. i do not know ur prob but its good to be transparent, saves us from anxiety .May Allah protect u from bad ppl