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Stressed college student

Where can I get sex education?


I want to know that I am just 14 so can I have sex education from internet...?


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  1. Salam Brother Ali,

    All the sex education you need is to save it for marraige. As long as you abstain from sex outside of marraige, you do not have to worry about diseases, condoms, ect. Sex is a no-brain activity, so save the worry for later. Try not to go looking up too much stuff online or Shaitan will get you into bad stuff.

  2. Assalamualaikom brother Ali

    The simple answer is No brother. Stay away from the internet and the haram sites. It will only increase your problems as a teenager who already has enough challenges to deal with.
    What you study in school about the biology and the reproduction is more than enough. If you have any questions ask trusted people like your parents and your teachers

    Remember that a young man/woman who grow up in obedience to Allah is among the 7 types of people who will be under the shade on the Day of Judgement, where there no shade at all.

    May Allah protect you from all harm.

  3. Salaam brother,

    Good to see that you are a wise person seeking advise from Islamic people on issues of doubt.

    I strongly advise you to stay away from Porn. It's the single biggest destroyer of life. You might think it's not a big deal and it's a small issue. But trust me and millions of other men on this issue.

    See the website yourbrainonporn for more information on the bad effects of porn.

    Watching Porn will spoil your present and future life. So if you want to have a successful life then don't even go near porn.

    Also, watching porn is Haram.

    You only need sex education after you get engaged. And there's a lot years left for that.

    I suggest focusing on yourself and building and improving your

    1.Deen (Islam)
    2.Physical (Healthy fit body)
    3.Education (Being the best in whatever you study)
    4.Career (choosing a career path and working hard to achieve it)
    5.Relationships (with family and friends)

    You have so much to do and the least important and of no use is sex education.
    The only thing you need to know about sex education is stay away from Zina and stay away from Porn.

    Best wishes and hope to see you become a successful man Inshallah.

    May Allah protect you from all evils.

    • I agree. Porn is an addiction that hooks young people in and creates a virtual reality like a drug. These fantacies can never be translated to a real woman, therefore it ruins the pleasures of life.

  4. Assalaamualaikam

    It's important to have somewhere to go to ask questions about sensitive things such as sex and the changes your body is going through. Puberty is a difficult and confusing time, so you may well have questions you want answered.

    But you need to be careful about the internet - don't believe everything you read, and stay away from sites that are about sex - these often lead to pornography (which is not permissible in Islam) and can infect your computer with malware or viruses.

    I'd advise that you speak with your dad or a trusted male Muslim teacher. They'll inshaAllah remember what it's like to be a 14 year old boy, so they can inshaAllah answer your questions while keeping to Islamic principles.

    Midnightmoon editor

  5. Some comments here assume sex education=porn. That is not true. Sex education is important to enjoy sex and avoid sexual problems. For example, a belief that masturbation damages a man's penis can actually interfere with his sexual functioning. Lot of women have problem with getting orgasm. Sexual education can help them enjoy sex fully.

    • You are right sex education is not porn. But what do you think will happen when a 14 year old goes on the internet searching for sex education, he will invariably be led towards porn sites by the shaitaan.

      Going to a porn site through internet is as easy as clicking a link somewhere and in a second he will be on a porn site. Don't you think that curiosity of a 14 year boy will make him watch porn just because he could " learn " more about sex education.

      So it's better to stay away from anything related to sex found on the internet. The topic is very tempting and it will not be long before he goes to a porn site tempted by reading about sexual functions on the internet.

      Moreover he is just 14 he doesn't need to know anything about sex until he gets much older. As others have suggested, he could speak to someone about his questions regarding sex.

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