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I have been wanting to kill myself for a long time. If I kill myself in Ramadan and the gates to hell are closed, when I commit suicide will I still go to hell?


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  1. Busmillah
    Why do you want to kill yourself?

  2. Wa alekom assalam
    It's forbidden in Islam to kill yourself

    It is narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira that the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) observed: He who killed himself with steel (weapon) would be the eternal denizen of the Fire of Hell and he would have that weapon in his hand and would be thrusting that in his stomach for ever and ever, he who drank poison and killed himself would sip that in the Fire of Hell where he is doomed for ever and ever; and he who killed himself by falling from (the top of) a mountain would constantly fall in the Fire of Hell and would live there for ever and ever.

    So the way you kill yourself you will be do it in hell for ever

    Why would you kill yourself and lose heaven? Is it really worth it ?

    Life is a test for all of us and you need to get closer to Allah instead of thinking to kill yourself
    Being closer to Allah will make you stronger and make your faith stronger
    The only thing that leads you to suicide thoughts is the shaytan (the devil)
    My advice is to try to go hajj or do omrah
    And pray five times and go to Islamic lectures and stay around people don't stay by yourself because this is when the devil can try to give you suicide thoughts

    See a Muslim Phycologist or a good sheikh that will support you !
    Please take this seriously because nothing is worth your pain !
    Your afterlife is more important and worthy then all your problems
    Remember that Allah is bigger then your problems ! So put your trust in Allah
    And follow Allah's path then you will succeed inshaa Allah .

    Take care of yourself and stay strong
    You have billions of Muslim brothers and sisters who loves you and wish you the best ! You are not alone 🙂

  3. Whatever the reason you want to kill yourself make sure you know first about Islamic view of it.

    Brother first of all suicide, killing or murdering is a big sin and its kabira gunaah.
    in ramadan month as u mentioned, in going ramadan month ALLAH just pause it.
    means in ramadan is the golden opportunity for going in jannah. if you suicide, kill yourself intentionally then you will get what ALLAH said.

    Killing a soul whom Allah has forbidden us to kill. This is a serious crime of which Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

    “And whoever kills a believer intentionally, his recompense is Hell to abide therein, and the Wrath and the Curse of Allah are upon him, and a great punishment is prepared for him”

    [an-Nisa’ 4:93].

    you try to strive and seek ALLAH's mercy then you will get the peace. read salah and pray to ALLAH.
    remember one thing whatever you think on your imagination all of those are limited cuz we live in this world
    and we can only imagine what have we seen or heard or believe.
    Example - can u tell us over a billion light years away from earth what is going on? No right..
    that's it we can only tell, imagine, say, think, do or desire all of it not only just over you. do not think that your imagination is unique or you could be the right one why? what are we doing all of us before that someone has done it. and whatever we think these all comes to us through this world. So, the truth is ALLAH know and loves us more than our imagination.
    calm down and think in that moment you feel to die but ALLAH can make u smile one day maybe within a week in sha ALLAH you will say oh no who will die ? im happy ... 🙂

  4. Sister, please take out of your mind this idea about suicide. I know you are in deep, deep emotional pain, but trust me, it is only because of your thoughts and your view of life. I can tell you this because I was like that for years, and I posted here so many times talking about how I didn't have the will to live anymore. Sister, educate yourself about the nature of this life that is only a test. Look at pictures of people who have extreme illnesses and disabilities who still have the will to live. You have the power to change your life bi Izni ALLAH. Try to think about something other than your issue and watch inspirational videos. More importantly, build a relationship with your Maker ALLAH SWT. Watch videos of Nouman Ali Khan or Omar Suleiman about grief and depression.

    May ALLAH SWT help you.

    Love and celebrate life. It is a gift.

  5. Why are you wanting to kill yourself?

  6. Alaikum Assalam
    Do not kill yourself it is a big sin.

    [4:28] Allah desires to lighten your burden, for man has been created weak.

    Hadith :
    "Whoever kills himself with an iron instrument will be carrying it forever in hell. Whoever takes poison and kills himself will forever keep sipping that poison in hell. Whoever jumps off a mountain and kills himself will forever keep falling down in the depths of hell."

    You can clearly see that it is haram. If you feel depressed pray to Allah to save you. Learn about the religion and how to taste the sweetnes of Iman. Make lots of Dua and do not kill yourself. Allah can change everysituation you are in, in a splitsecond. Do not ever dispear in the Mercy of Allah.

    ” Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do the hearts find rest. (13:28)
    Zikrillah or Remembrance of Allah can be done in three ways :

    In the heart. One can observe nature and praise Allah, feel guilty of his sins and repent in his heart, realize Allah's mercy and be thankful to Allah in his heart, etc.
    By speaking. A slave can remember Allah by saying words of praise like “subhanAllah” “Alhamdulillah” “Allahuakbar” “Astaghfirullah”, or reciting Quran, etc.
    Through limbs. This refers to doing good deeds using your hands and feet. For eg, praying, helping others, giving sadqa (charity), etc.
    The meaning of the ayah is that only through mediums of Allah's remembrance, one’s heart (quloob) can feel true “itminan” (tatma-inna) or ease.
    What is the reason you want to kill yourself ?

  7. What about the life that Allah gave to you, shouldn't you be thankfull to him.
    what about the eman?
    what about the health?
    etc etc etc
    What about the ..

  8. and yeah the major sin it it
    and one more thing once a person sucide guess what the biggest regret he faces after that.
    any guess


    okaay I'll tell you

    That cheap mentality person loses the chance of taubah, that's the only grave sin that a person can not able to do repentance after he commits .

    so that means hell hell and hell fire
    and that fire is 70 times hotter than our this earth s fire.
    so beware of doing it.

  9. Do not do that

  10. Assalaamualaykum sara,

    What I find telling about your post is that you write:

    "when I commit suicide will I still go to hell?"

    Instead of saying "if," you are saying "when," which implies that you have given this ample thought and are very stuck in that mindset. Please seek help from a professional, such as a therapist or counselor. Things are not as bad as they seem right now, and you need to talk to someone who can help you see the better side of things.

    Inshallah you will come out of this to the other side. I believe in you!



    • Assalamualaikum.
      As Noor said, reach out to your friends and family, and please get a professional help. You will get out of this bi idhnillah. Hugs and lots of prayers for you.

      • There's always a way out.
        Reach out to someone. Your doctor friends family neighbours or anyone random like the local post person or the shop keeper whoever but don't kill yourself. It's haraam regardless of what Islamic month it is

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