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Supplications for death

Salam Alaykum, I’m gng through a lot of torture and oppression from my parents and I can’t take it anymore , every sec I think of is suicide which I’ve committed before and unfortunately survived.. I need to know if there are special supplications for death instead of suicide ... I’m js a 17 yr old and I’m honestly so done

ziya33

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  1. Sister, please do a prayer to Allah (swt) thanking him for your health. Obviously the suicide attempt failed because Allah (swt) did not want that for you.
    I'm not sure what you are going through but as believers we have to remain strong and steadfast in our religion and faith.
    I won't go into personal details but I have been oppressed so many times by different individuals for various unislamic reasons. Sister stay strong pray and keep praying , your supplications will reach the heavens direct to Allah (swt) and he will help you out of this. Please stay strong sister and do not ever try to commit suicide again as you will go to hell.
    You are being tested by the Almighty you are already reaching out to others but reach to Allah (swt) , Allah (swt) is the one who will help you with all matters and affairs. Allah (swt) will give you ease and will reward you.

    • Sister ziya 33 ,

      Islamic Sister writes:

      "your supplications will reach the heavens direct to Allah (swt)"

      This is true. Allah always answers the call of the oppressed!

      Hugs,

      Nor

  2. I don't understand your way of thinking at all. So your parents are terrible human beings, and in your mind the solution to being a victim of bad parenting is to kill yourself before you have even explored any other avenues? Yeah, that makes sense...very logical thinking. But I assume you know it's not, otherwise you wouldn't be writing in, asking for advice :). I commend you for that...it's a very good thing that you are seeking help. That's the right thing to do: SEEK HELP! There's no shame in reaching out when you are stuck in a bad situation...

    Look, you're putting a lot of time and effort into contemplating death, wishing for death and committing suicide. How about you took all that effort and time, and put it to more productive use? It's better to leave your parents than it is to kill yourself...so why not look into your options of moving out of their home and distancing yourself from them? Parents or not, if people drive you to the brink of suicide, or make you wish to commit suicide, they are not people that should be in your life. End of. Your mental health and life far exceeds loyalty to parents that don't deserve loyalty. Sometimes, parents are selfish monsters that should never have become parents...that's life, and sadly, you can't do anything about it. All you can do is think of yourself...and in your case, do whatever it takes to break out of a toxic situation. Without resorting to something as terminal and haram as suicide...

  3. Your reply is extremely harsh, I really don't think by using words of such, is at all helping someone with "thoughts of suicide". May Allah (swt) grant us piety in this holy month and may we be granted with understanding of our religion.
    Compassion is apart of our faith , may Allah (swt) guide us.

  4. I know exactly how you feel, I'm dealing with the same thing as well.
    Sometimes it seems like it's the only choice or the only way to get rid of certain feelings
    that you have. I feel like people who haven't gone through it or experienced it wouldn't be able
    to understand. They may just say something like it's okay don't say that or it's haram, but feeling the way
    you do, you aren't really worried about what's haram or not. You're just worried about getting rid of the emotional pain.
    I've been struggling for a couple years now.

    • Pray and keep praying to the Almighty , surround yourself with positive people who care and who are good Islamic people. Don't let the whispers of Shaytaan get to you. Try to keep yourself busy and occupied also try to think of those with no homes no money and no food this will help you to appreciate the blessings Allah (swt) has given you , health , provisions , family, friends, everything you have that others may not have. In Sha Allah you will feel better and will have a different outlook. Read Quran everything in there relates to struggles and life itself. Recite parts of the Quran and do your upmost to do good deeds even if you can only do a little it will still help.

  5. “And whosoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty).

    And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine.”

    [al-Talaq 65:2-3]

    Umm Salamah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
    I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) saying, “When a person suffers from a calamity and utters: ‘Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’un. Allahumma ujurni fi musibati, wakhluf li khairan minha (We belong to Allah and to Him we shall return. O Allah! Compensate me in my affliction, recompense my loss and give me something better in exchange for it), then Allah surely compensates him with reward and better substitute.” Umm Salamah (May Allah be pleased with her) said: When Abu Salamah (May Allah be pleased with him) died, I repeated the same supplication as the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had commanded me (to do). So Allah bestowed upon me a better substitute than him (I was married to Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)).
    [Muslim].

    So if you say this Allah will exchange your hardship with something that is better than what you are going through now in sha Allah sooner or later.

    May Allah guide you to the straight path and give you ease from your hardship
    Amin

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