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My husband wants a second wife because of my absence

I have to stay in my sister’s house and hide for I don’t have any residence visa anymore because I choose to follow what my husband told me. To resign from my previous company where am I working and he will come out after few weeks only and he will make my visa. Almost 2 years I am waiting for him to come out but still he didn’t make my visa. So I left the country and went back to my country to see my family and to fix my visa. When I came back to my husband’s country I was been hold by immigration for 4-5 hours just only then I learned that I have life time ban… I caught my husband chatting with other woman and telling them he’s single and he’s looking for serious relationship. Then I asked him why he’s doing this he told me he just gets bored at home alone… he send me SMS telling that he will get married and that’s it… Is it because of my absence physically that make him do haram things? All of this is my fault?