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We have endured lifelong abuse from our father…

Also most painfully I have begun to feel resentment towards my mother may Allah forgive me… it pains me she turned a blind eye to our abuse as children, she tries now, but sometimes I feel it’s because I complain to her so much.

We don’t know how to deal with our cruel father

I sometimes get confused that how to deal him… with love he gets so cruel over us and with harshness he becomes even more revengeful.

Dad hits mom and use abusive language with her

Dad even used to hit mama in her pregnancies. Now she is 50 and still that person hits her and calls her abusive things.

My dad is abusive and a cheater

After jummah he fought my mom, and she was crying. I gave him a warning, that I will call the police… he ran after me to hit me.

Abusive father won’t let me marry

He said the reason is because he said no and I should obey. I have to follow his command because else he will kill me … he also said that he will burn my face…

My father has become difficult to live with

I honestly don’t know how to proceed and I am tired of trying to restore our relationship. I am on the verge of shutting him out of my life.

Wishing death for my abusive father

I just wish my dad was gone… That way we wouldn’t have to suffer…

Abusive father is ruining our lives

Can I kill him? Is it wrong to pray to Allah to take him away from us, to give him death? Can I expose him?

My father molested me – so how do I marry the man I love?

We want to marry but my family will never say yes. I am in a foster home so it’s hard. We would like to do a nikkah but as I am in a foster home I have no clue what to do.

My father and brother sexually abused me

If it is not haraam I will feel better that I can just live my life and block him out. But if it is haraam I need to know and any advice of how I should deal with it.