Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘abusive marriage’

Considering divorce

I am aware that divorce is the most hated of the lawful things to Allah. Is it permissible for me to ask divorce for these reasons?

Help needed in understanding istikhara

I’m married but separated as was victim of domestic violence… My husband wants us to get back together and my family really insisting me for divorce.

Can a married woman who is tortured physically and mentally by husband be accepted?

Her husband was a brutal minded person who restricted her always from offering namaz as he used to rape her forcibly…

I am feeling lost and need advice

I am heart broken and very depressed. But know that if and when I try to get out of this relationship he will make my life hell and will make me suffer.

Is this how married life should be?

Is this the way we should live? I am not happy and find myself not wanting to return home when I go out with the kids.

My sister being mentally tortured by her husband

Among us four siblings, my sister used to be the liveliest of all; beloved of parents and grandparents alike. She is now on depression medication because of him.

Dreaming about my husband, although he has left me

I don’t know what this dream means. He removed me from the house; in short I am a victim of domestic violence. My in-laws also don’t like me.

My Muslim Life is not real – I need help and courage

Muslim Family is a Lie – How do I handle it?
My husband and I have been married for 13 years. I brought three children into the marriage from a previously abusive relationship and one of the most important things that my husband and I discussed before marriage was how crucial it was that there be no division in our blended family.

Trying to leave my violent husband but the guilt is stopping me


First I want to say that I appreciate any advice anyone has for me. I am a 27 year old woman living in the Unites states. I have been married to my husband for 10 years and we have 3 amazing sons Hamdillah. My husband is verbally abusive and angry all the time.