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Can I leave my mother after she lied to me about my father?

My parents have had an divorce when I was at the age of 9 . I have been living with my mother for 7 years with two other sibling and had no contact with my farther because of my mother, I had so much hatred built in my heart that I hated my father because what my mother had told me. so started building hatred for my father for the sake of my mother also to please in some sense.

Is it permissible for a girl to leave home to escape abuse?

I am a 21 year old girl. My mother torments me and encourages my brother to beat me. I can’t take any more of this insane family, can I leave home and live alone?

They want me to marry a gambler or an alcoholic.

I´m so much depressed that sometimes I think of committing suicide but then I think that this life is a gift of ALLAH(swt) and I don’t have any right to finish this life.

My mother taunts me, curses me and tells me to die

Dear Wael, Can u please set me up with one of your counselors, i need help.
I’m 21 years old, we r 7 brothers and sisters, ive faced emotional abuse for my whole life, my mother wanted first son and i was born, im the oldest, she hates me since that day. she taunts me curses me and keeps telling me to die, she keeps saying that i shuld have died at birth as it would have been good for all of us,and that im the worst thing that ever happened to her, she says i will never have a normal life and i will live painfully for who i am

My mother curses and tells us she hates us

I hate my Mom sometimes just as she says to my brothers and me that she hates us. . she curses at us, and we take it because we can’t do anything. My brother argues back and sometimes I do too but most of the time I just leave the scene. It’s horrible living with her. Her threats are knives stabbing me. I cry the pain out in the bathroom.