Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘Abusive relationship’

Dua/Wazifa to sort out horrible mess created by my husband and in-laws.

MY HUSBAND DOESN’T CARE. I DON’T KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH HIM. HOW I CAN LEAD MY LIFE IN SUCH A HOUSE. I HAVE BECOME DEPRESSED TO SUCH AN EXTENT THAT I HAVE NO HOPE IN ALLAH FOR ME. I JUST WANT TO END MY LIFE.

Can I become a good Muslim in this difficult situation?

He told me that my children belong to his mother… I have threats coming from every side. Please help, I do not want to lose my boys.

We’re separated because he is abusive and sells drugs – should I divorce?

My spouse and I have been seperated for 7 months now. I left him because he had a drug problem, was out until mornings on a daily basis, ignored me, put me down, sold drugs, did drugs in our home, and occasionally hit me. ..

Husband has thrown me out and demands divorce

I had my nikkah last year in Ramzan in Pakistan. My husband moved to the US and I stayed in Pakistan. In July 2010 I had my rukhsati and came to the US. After a month and a half, my husband found out that I had a relationship 2 years before my nikkah when I was in high school.

Problems with emotionally troubled husband

We had the katb ktab coz it was needed for his immigration application, and although i knew i was unhappy i let it be. After this told me that it was ok for us to go to hotel and have intercourse because we were legally married. I didn’t want to but he had spoken to a sheikh and said it was legal. i didn’t want to do anything without my family knowing about it, (this katb ktab was only for immigration sake, the wedding was to be held overseas in the presence of his family..). I went along because he was really intimidating me.

Am I asking for a miracle, or is this my fate to have no love?

My name is Jennah, and I reverted to Islam Nov 2007, I live in Seattle, WA. My 12 year old son lives with me and my husband whom I married in Aleppo Syria, was living with us, from March 2009 till October 2009, when he entered the US Army. Prior to that when he first arrived from Syria, it first seemed everything was good between us, then in May 2009 he discovered some things that I did not tell him from my past, and he proceeded to dig and dig deeper into my past.