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How can I stop my husband from drinking alcohol?

I am 26 and have been married 8 years. My husband drinks alcohol and does not care about the fact that I despise alcohol. This has caused a lot of issues in our marriage. We are in marriage therapy as well but it seems like nothing will help the issue.

Can I marry a girl who has a past?

I am muslim Pakistani and have been seeing a girl of similar background for 6 months. We would like to get married but my family are against it because this girl has had relationships in the past and also experimented with alcohol, although she has stopped.

I am 15 & my father beats my mother and is an alcoholic

I heard my mum screaming stop, I saw my dad repeatedly hitting her, I tried to stop and pull my dad away but never done any good. He grabbed a chair and was about to hit it my mum with it until I came in front and got hit with the chair, but that didn’t stop my dad he went to a kitchen and grabbed a knife a went towards my mum… I went in front so he couldn’t touch her because she was pregnant

My parents are alcoholics who do not respect not drinking in the house

my mother drinks almost everyday, and even when she was staying with me in my house watching my son, she drunk. She didn’t respect the fact that my husband prays in the house and he is so strict about not drinking inthe house. he wants his house to be a holy house just like every Muslim’s house…

My boyfriend was on drugs and is now violent as I cheated on him

I have been in a relationship that is hitting 2 years and no, unfortunatley we are not married which is forbiden in islam which is one of the many reasons i am here. My other half is a muslim brother which i am thankful for however, i have gotten too close to him over the passed two years and i have infact lost my virginity with him which i am punishing myself over as it is a big sin in islam.

My husband drinks alcohol heavily

I need major help please do help me with the right information. My husband drinks beer every night and drinks heavily on weekends and he always wants to have sex and sometimes he gets his way just to avoid the problems.

Do I need a divorce from the man who left me?

Salam, my husband left a year ago and he refused to give me a divorce. We had nikah only and he says it doesnt matter it was only Nikah which does not count in this country (UK) as marriage. But im not sure if he is correct. Do I require a Talaq from him or could I just forget about him. We had only been married 2 months and I had to ask him to leave as he was drinking and would use foul language and would become abusive towards me and my children from previous marriage.

I swore on the Quran, then broke my promise

I touched the Quran and swore that I will never drink alchol but I did it with the permission of husband as he asked me to swear

A Muslim teenager: lost, depressed, lonely homosexual

I was a good child, I sought Allah, I prayed 5 times a day as a child and even as a teenager. I stayed up long nights reading Quran , making Dikr.. I am not a faithless or unaware person. I know I need to change, I am very lost and confused and find myself doing bad things, talking to bad people.

Cheating husband after 32 years

I’ve been married for 32 years and recently found my husband cheating. He has admitted this openly and I left the house to stay with my sibling. Since then, he has brought this woman to our house and has engaged in zina consistently. Recently, he sent me a message telling me he bought me for $$ (mahr) and I need to come back home.