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We fight every day, should I continue the relationship?

As you can read the Title of the post, its about the fact that I am questioning myself if I should continue this affair/word given I have with this young lady. As I have read in before posts from other Muslim brothers and sisters when you intend to marry someone look for the woman that will help you reach higher places in the Islam, so a lady with attention to her Deen. But is it also wrong for me if I have certain expectations such as looks, body size and etc?

I always think nobody likes me.

As I am not good looking I am depressed very much. I know Allah created everything upon his will, but yet I am so sad. I always think nobody likes me, although love does not depend on beauty. I feel jealous upon all good looking girls. I am not interested in my studies.

Parents not agreeing to my choice of wife because she is a different caste

I decided to tell my parents about the girl I want to marry, and I did hesitate a little bit first because theres a problem of caste in our family, but then decided that I have not done anything wrong by deciding to marry a girl out of caste.

Got engaged to a 14 year old girl, but she’s not pretty

I was told by my family to chose girl and get married soon as i am 29 almost. One of my relative referred a girl whose age is just 14.5 years. I got opportunity to see her for just 3-4 seconds. i liked her and decided to get engaged. My engagement was done just after few days.

My parents rejected the boy I love because of his looks and financial status

I’m in love with this practising muslim boy but my parents would not accept him because they think he’s not good enough for me in terms of looks and his financial status. I’m truly in love with him and wish my parents would see that.