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We are living separate lives even though we are married

I was never shown what he earns or where he spends, while he has complete control over my salary! I have also caught him multiple times talking to girls through a dating site. I have come to the point where I feel separation is the only way I could get some peace.

Getting pressured to marry someone I hate, I want to die

I recently turned 18. I am being pressured to marry a first cousin who I hate because he bullied me all through my childhood. I want to die now because I feel like I would be eventually forced to say yes.

Pressured into marrying a woman I do not love

It has been 30 days since then I am living like in hell. I do not find my wife attractive. I avoid her all the time.

Should I have sex with a man I’m only with for citizenship?

We do not have our legal papers in the United States, so we paid for arranged marriage. I was now legally divorced in the States with my main husband but we still lived together and the whole family understands we were only divorced for papers.

My husband loves me, but I don’t like him

ven now after almost two years of trying to like him, things still haven’t changed. His family is amazing and he also is really nice, but I feel like we’re just not compatible. I’ve tried telling him, but he says he loves me and I shouldn’t think this way. He is trying his best to make it work but I just can’t do it anymore.

My violent father has trapped me in an arranged marriage

Someone from my college has proposed marriage for me to my father, but since he is not from a wealthy family my father declined it. he is a practicing Muslim and his family also loves me. My father has rejected the proposal, and now he has chosen someone wealthy for me. Even though I don’t like the guy I cant do anything, because he will beat my mother and me up.

I want a love marriage

I asked my mother just to meet them once at least, but she says my your father will never agree and he will blame her for sending me to the institute, and she can’t make life more hell. I told her to try to convince him in a proper way, but she doesn’t agree, and she said that I’m trying to break her trust by saying this.

Arranged Marriage: I do not like him at all but I have slept with him.

I am 18 years old. My parents married my to my cousin whom I had never seen or talked to. I have met him a couple times and in those few times he has tried to be intimate with me. I allowed him earlier in our marriage and I feel so tainted.

I don’t want my arranged husband

I am going to turn 20 this year and by the end of this year is my rukhsati. I am married since 2016 but due to his education rukhsati was postponed. I never wanted to marry him, and I love someone else.

I’m repulsed by my husband’s insecure need for love

He is not a man in my eyes as he behaves like an emotional and overly sensitive little girl. I have never come across a man or even a boy who is this way.