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My husband loves me, but I don’t like him

ven now after almost two years of trying to like him, things still haven’t changed. His family is amazing and he also is really nice, but I feel like we’re just not compatible. I’ve tried telling him, but he says he loves me and I shouldn’t think this way. He is trying his best to make it work but I just can’t do it anymore.

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My violent father has trapped me in an arranged marriage

Someone from my college has proposed marriage for me to my father, but since he is not from a wealthy family my father declined it. he is a practicing Muslim and his family also loves me. My father has rejected the proposal, and now he has chosen someone wealthy for me. Even though I don’t like the guy I cant do anything, because he will beat my mother and me up.

I want a love marriage

I asked my mother just to meet them once at least, but she says my your father will never agree and he will blame her for sending me to the institute, and she can’t make life more hell. I told her to try to convince him in a proper way, but she doesn’t agree, and she said that I’m trying to break her trust by saying this.

Arranged Marriage: I do not like him at all but I have slept with him.

I am 18 years old. My parents married my to my cousin whom I had never seen or talked to. I have met him a couple times and in those few times he has tried to be intimate with me. I allowed him earlier in our marriage and I feel so tainted.

I don’t want my arranged husband

I am going to turn 20 this year and by the end of this year is my rukhsati. I am married since 2016 but due to his education rukhsati was postponed. I never wanted to marry him, and I love someone else.

I’m repulsed by my husband’s insecure need for love

He is not a man in my eyes as he behaves like an emotional and overly sensitive little girl. I have never come across a man or even a boy who is this way.

Why is he letting his family tell him who to marry?

Why is it so big deal to arrange a marriage for their child? Why they cannot let their child choose for his own happiness? Why they are doing this to him/us?

Arranged marriage and not going well

I feel like I shouldn’t have gotten married this early. I’m not thinking of divorcing but I don’t know what I can do to love him…

Arranged Marriage and Parent’s pressure

I think he is marrying me solely for my greencard. His American visa is expiring in September and wants to marry someone before he get deported.

My parents want me to have an arranged marriage

I don’t understand – All the life our parents taught us not to speak to strangers and suddenly they make us marry them… It’s like a suicide decision for me.