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Am I in love with a celebrity?

I’m only 19, and I’ve never had a boyfriend or anything but this seems like its beyond a crush, and its really driving me nuts.

How can we get our parents to agree to marriage?

We are not going out because we know it’s not good but in the future how can I convince my parents?

He has asked for my hand and says he knows in his heart “ALLAH” has answered his prayers and blessed him with me

On the third day we met on Skype, after about twenty minutes of talking with me he told me he loved me, because I am the woman “ALLAH” has chosen to bless him with, he said he knew it immediately when he saw my picture on my profile.

Need help with my attraction to thin women and anime

My sexual urges seem to have a lot of control over me. So, I often tend to masturbate in my bed before sleeping at night. While masturbating, I fantasize about myself having sex with a beautiful, thin woman. It gives me a lot of pleasure. Sometimes, my desires also lead me to watch animated porn videos.

What are female rights to sex?

Please tell me my rights as a female on sex? Is it wrong for a female to ask for sex? I also need tips in how I can make him more attractive and intimate with me…

He has left me because I don’t speak the language his mother understands

I know he will not change his decision and that she is the one he wants and no matter how much I beg him and want to be with him he will not be with me because he wants someone who can speak to his mother in his native language. This hurt me because I have been trying my best to learn his language but it can not happen over night.

Do I really love him? What should I do?

I started liking him, he doesn’t know but I think from everything I’ve told him he might have gotten a clue. So to make sense of the situation I was in, I told him about myself: how I grew up and what I’ve turned to and what kind of a Muslim I was. It was a bit personal and I had never told anyone about myself ever! I don’t know what in the world I was thinking when I sent him that, it’s not bad things but it’s really strange how I opened up to him.

My life is hell because I am not physically attracted to my wife

Assalamualikum. I am a 30+ guy. Got married recently. It was arranged marriage. Just after the engagement I heard from my wife ( not yet wife that time) she has some physical issue. I didn’t have the chance to see her face to face before the engagement because we were living in 2 different countries. I have seen her photographs and saw her once on webcam.

Family wants me to marry a guy I have no feelings for

My brother, who is the oldest and is Mashallah set up financially, says he will not marry until at least one girl from the family gets married first. This is silly because they are following the old Pakistani culture and want me and my sisters to get married first even though two of us are still studying and are not mentally prepared for marriage.

Not attracted to my fiance!

Well basically I’m getting married soon, my fiance is someone i’m not physically attracted to. Do you think this is a big factor or is it something that I can overcome after the marriage…