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Drugs, lies and no trust…

My Nikkah was held at the end of 2015 and things started “changing” from there… what was promised and told to me wasn’t true at all.

His social media affairs

I am in disbelief that this is still happening even during this pregnancy… He said he’ll change……. He’s still chatting with the same shameless girl.

End of a serious relationship

Now my mind started to thinking bad stuffs such as doing black magic and to get him back… He made promises by Allah’s name! Do you think Allah will forgive him if he doesn’t get back with me?

I masturbate, then promise not to, then break it again!

I’m a 15 year old male. My habit of masturbating started at a very young age, at which time I didn’t know it was wrong. I continued for years, and eventually it became a habit. Last year, I felt bad and did some searches and got to know it was haraam. Now I try to control […]

Husband’s porn habit is killing my confidence

I do not know what to do anymore. When I see these porn actors, especially the females, it makes me feel unattractive and look at myself in a different light. I have cried countless of times that his eyes would only be for me, but he sees other naked women and I just cannot accept that. I am deeply disturbed by it. I have come to a point where I am starting to take comfort in other men giving me their compliments or attention, but I believe this sort of need is due to my unfulfilled request that has sparked an insecurity within myself.

My husband lost his trust and hate me because of my face

He asked me to promise him to stop having red marks on my face. He made me promise. Now when he sees red marks on my face he hates me with silence and no love because I broke his promise.

He promised her marriage then tried to seduce her

As she loved him and trusted him, she didn’t create a scene by clamoring at the place where they were together. She told me that it wasn’t in her mind that he would try to take advantage of her.

I promised Allah that if I returned to my sin, HE can make me infertile

Aoa everyone. I hope this msg will find you in best of ur health and high spirits. I am very much mentally disturbed because I broke a promise to Allah not for once but for several times.

Need guidance on a failing marriage.

Assalam alikum

I hope to get guidance here from any of the learned Islamic men/women in the light of Shariah and Islamic Law..

I am Male, from India and a Doctor by profession. I got married an year ago to a practising doctor from the same city. It was an arranged marriage fixed by parents on either sides. My father-in-law told the following to me when the proposal was made and the alliance was made…

He took an oath on the Quran to never touch me sexually, but now we’re in love & want to marry

He is married and I have been talking to him for 2 yrs. We respect each other nothing sexually happened between us. I know his children and his wife. She doesn’t like me because I help him alot and she thinks that something is going on between him and me. She made him swear over the Quran that he will not touch me sexually and that he looks at me like part of the family.