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How should a Muslim deal with cheap people?

I thought by just focusing on studying and getting good grades, one day these people would at least respect me and stop the name calling. I got good grades in my pre-university program, but I still didn’t get respect; I just got a new label: nerd.

Bullying at School

I need help. I’m getting bullied at school.

Friends ask me to become a Christian and call me a terrorist

I’m having trouble at school i have some non muslim friends who keep telling me to convert to christian they say that muslims are terrorist and they say no one will be my friend.

I have no freedom, no rights

I have no freedom at home… no rights. They lie about me going to college when I’m really stuck at home.

My boyfriend is abusive but I love him

Assalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,

I’m facing so many problems in my life. I got involved in a relationship, one which I have been in for the last 8 years. I really love him but he always bothers me, he uses abusive language against me, he slapped me, kicked me. One time I ended up with plaster on my hand for one month during Ramzaan because of him.

My husband tells me I am not good enough, should I leave?

I am a 24-year-old married girl. It was an arranged marriage. And it seems he was forced to marry me by his mom though he doesn’t have any love affair as such.My husband repeatedly says he regrets this marriage and colours of his life has vanished?

I don’t get along with my husband’s shallow Iranian community

My husband is of Iranian origin, whereas I’m European. I have been married to him for the last 9 years, he’s my stepcousin. His mother liked me at the beginning, but when she realized that I’m not like an Iranian woman, she offended my looks…..

Parents are still punishing me for things that happened a long time ago

I’m 17 years old and I am having a lot of problems with my parents. I made mistakes in my past when I first started high school. My parents were so harsh on me when they found out about it all. I did feel guilty and since then I am trying to fix my life up and just be a good Muslim and make my parents happy.

Wife is being unreasonable and demanding and I don’t know what to do

For the ease of everyone and to wrap up fast, I’ll write the fast facts:

SUMMER 2008:
I and my wife got married, just the Nikah no reception. The reception (Walima) was supposed to take place when she finishes her education and I go to the US since her entire family (aunts, uncles and all) are living over there because they couldn’t come for the Nikah neither her parents because it was a really fast decision between the parents and both of us.

My father in Law is a controlling bully

I was married in June 2008. My wife’s parents home is nearly 18 hrs journey from my house. In spite of this long journey, my wife used to visit her parents after every 10 days. She stays there for nearly a month, she comes back for a week or 10 days to my house and again she goes back