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I need some help for past abuse

I thought Allah hated me and wanted him to hurt me. Even though I know that’s probably not right, I still feel that way sometimes. I feel like Allah hates me. Thats when I go back to my suicidal thoughts. I planned, but I’m too scared. Sometimes though I hurt myself without knowing because I’m just so sad.

Child abuse; How the Almighty can allow the innocent to suffer?

How can a defenseless child be put through such horror. Doesn’t every child deserve love and happiness? How is it that some children are born into homes with so much while others with nothing. It is not fair. Why does this happen?

20 year old male, molested at age 7 by my uncle

I was first molested when I was about 7 by my uncle. I know killing myself isn’t allowed, but I would rather be dead so I can stop the thoughts in my mind and stop pretending to be something I’m not.

Parents do not approve the man I wish to marry

I was too upset with my life and sincerely repent to Allah for all my mistakes, doing hijab and do my prayers. I was forced for that i wasn’t willing to do. Now i tell my past to a person to whom i wana marry. He respect me alot and forgive me for my mistakes which i have done in past.

I want to be a role model to my younger sisters, but I don’t know how?

I’m 19 years old and since i was 10 iv been sexually, physically and emotionally abused. i have two younger siblings and i want to show them that life doesn’t just stop. you have to keep going and your past is no excuse for your future.

Am I a Girl or a Boy?

as far as i could remember i was being molested by 5 men by the age of 5, no body told me it was bad i liked it and by the age of 7 i was seeking it, around that time it was brought to my attention that i was very feminine, i was sad because i thought i was normal until i was called names by kids at school for being me, i then became sad depressed and lonely in a nation that has no tolerance for anyone who is different we are very ugly to those who are abnormal,

I have been having an affair with my cousins husband and I don’t know what to do!

Hi I am a college student in UK and I’m doing great. However, I have a major secret in my life. I have been having an affair with my cousin’s husband since I was 12. I had no feelings for him at the age of 12 but slowly as we came close I started to develop feelings for him and now I really love him.

I need reasons to not kill myself and fast

Ok so I’m not islam I’m athiest but I have thought about converting. But I need help. I’m 13 and I’ve always had attitude problems. But it has gotten worse since my mother’s boyfriend has moved in. He has violated me in the past so I don’t even know why my mother took him in again. And now I’m being bullied in school because of a boy I really like.

I want my sisters to recover and talk with me and father again

As salam alaikum- I am a 33 year old married man living happily with my wife and kid my mother expired 7 years back but before her death when I was unmarried and living with my family there was horrible violence..

The abuse from my past is holding me back, please help

Assalaam alaikum, brothers and sisters in the deen, my life is a mess and I need help. I am a muslim , although I am ashamed to call myself that. I am 36 years old, drink alcohol, have a ruined marriage..