Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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I cannot get past my wife’s zina in the past, even though I did zina too.

I know this issue has been written about before but I really need specific advice about moving on with my life. I got married on the 24th of Feb(arranged marriage) to a girl from a different city. We were engaged for about two months before we were married. Before a year I decided to get married, I was in a relationship(haraam) with a muslim girl and have committed the grave sin of zinaa with her and somewhere promised to marry her.

Cheated on husband. Should I tell him or divorce cuz he deserves better?

I am from Pakistan. I was married for 6 yrs. It was nikkah so according to our elders we werent allowed to sleep with each other. In pakistan there is another ceremony called “giving away the bride”, thats when the girl leaves house to live with the husband. Since we hadn’t done the GiveAway ceremony, we weren’t allowed to sleep with each other but of course me and my husband did. There were so many restrictions that were brought upon us by our families. I went to school in a different state and ended up sleeping with another guy.