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Parents blackmailing me into marrying someone other than the girl I love

I was in a relationship with a girl for years and now want to marry her, but my parents are dead set on me marrying the daughter of a Maulana. They are saying that “from day one, we have given you everything you wanted.”

Abandoned after a promise of marriage

He too finished his studies and placed in a job, but 6 months ago he said “according to islam, having a relationship with a girl before marriage is a sin, so hereafter I am not ready to speak with you. I realised my mistake, so I will marry you with my parents’ permission only if you convert to become muslim” and “there is no way to marry a hindu girl according to islam”.

I love him but I do not like his educational profile; Should I do Rukhsati or not?

Sould I go for marriage because he seems to very caring and loving? Although I do not at all like his educational profile? I do Istekhara, but my heart is depressed with both going ahead as well as going back.