Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘confusion’

Am I wrong for disagreeing with my mother?

I can’t say what my mother wants to hear because this matter is really close to my heart

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To divorce or not to divorce?… Istikhara

In my dream, I see myself laughing and hanging out with my husband’s nephew.

What should I do with this Nikah? So confused!

He is less educated and smokes, and we may not be able to understand each other.

Should I choose my new love interest or honor my commitment?

Is it pre-wedding jitters or a close call of gut instinct? A silly epiphany or a life-changing decision from satan or Allah?

Married…or Not?

I fell into the trap of Shaytan and believing I was divorced, started talking to other men for marriage.

I met a Western Muslimah whose past is bothering me

Eventually, I came to find out about her past. She had a boyfriend in high school who used her and left. I did not say anything to her about it.

Will Allah forgive me?

My cousin brother forced me to do sinful acts. His sister saw… she said that she will not forgive me.

Should I take a chance with this man or not?

We have talked for at least two months, he seems to be a good guy as far as I can tell.

His parents won’t let him marry me.

Should I take this as a sign to implement ‘sabr’ and wait it out to see if they end up agreeing, or should I take this as a sign of Allah trying to keep me away from the marriage?

Depression and confusion

I lost my love of life, my husband, even my health is damaged…