Tag Archive for ‘confusion’
Mental confusion
Sometimes it feels like all the elements are pushing us towards each other and at other time we are pushed apart.
I need help with my life
I feel empty now and I don’t wanna study. I just don’t feel like doing anything, though I know I have to since it’s my last chance of having a good life.
Confused about my goal of life
I think being a scientist, you can work to develop solutions to the problems facing humanity and discover the realms of knowledge. Will my work please Allah and His Prophet ?
Confused about seeking Khulah
I have discussed all these issues with him a million times. I have tried to convince him with my loving words to warnings of leaving him, but nothing has changed him in these years. I feel that he will never change, and I will live this miserable life for ever and ever. When I discuss it with him, he simply proves that these things are only in my head and have nothing to do with reality, and that he loves me a lot and is sincere with me.
I am not sure if he’s the one for me
He spoke to his family about me and sent his mom from UAE to INDIA to ask for my hand in marriage. My dad (who was hesitating and felt that he was not the right guy) also agreed, as he liked the family. In the meantime my mom and her sisters consulted 4-5 spiritual priests, who would match our stars with the help of our names. All of them said no for this marriage. One of them first said that he was perfect for me, but after a week the same person said that he is not trustworthy.
I don’t understand my marital contract
When we got married, of course we both had signatures on the marriage certificate. But we didn’t read it…
Seeking Guidance about Istikhara
(Editor’s note: both of your posts have been combined into one for the sake of convenience.) My situation: I am planning to go for my higher studies, and I intend to do Istikhara for seeking guidance from ALLAH, as there are a number of pros and cons related with that (like leaving family, job, etc.). I […]
Which proposal is meant for me?
Now the problem has started that the guy has reduced his messaging, sending them only once in two days…or like now- I have not received a message at all in 3 days! Not that we were always indulging in messaging each other on a regular basis, but at least there was just small, decent chit chat to understand each other.
Is he a real Muslim man?
When our relationship ended, he twisted everything so that it was my fault that things had gone wrong, only because I said that I thought he was scamming me and he could not forgive me for what I had said to him. He was very horrible to me on a message, and called me a racist when I said that Muslim men are supposed to provide for their families. The strange thing is he also goes to pubs and nightclubs (although he does not drink), and chats to women on Facebook, which I did not think was accepted in Islam.
my wife’s affair before marriage.
I g0t married 3 months ago, but a few days before I realized that my wife had an affair with a boy before marriage. When I asked her she admitted that she had an affair with him, and even accepted that they crossed the limits. But she also promised and gave me an oath that she will never repeat […]
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