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Too Much Control

I have been in this marriage for 3 years. As soon as I converted the rules started to come down hard on me.

Would you stay or leave?

My husband is very disrespectful to me. He doesn’t care about Islam. He’s just all about the dunya and making money.

Am I misusing my ability to control my dreams?

I made myself dream this, and I could have made myself not do it. I feel very guilty about it.

Abused By Husband’s Family

I feel like I no longer have my husband’s support. I feel that she is controlling us, and me. If I say something about it, I am wrong. I feel so unhappy. If he is going to let her dictate every aspect of my life, then I don’t want to stay with him anymore. I can’t live my life this way. He feels like I don’t want my son to have a relationship with his grandparents, which isn’t farther from the truth. I don’t have a problem with them, I have a problem with being disrespected and controlled.

Problematic in-laws and husband

I talk to my husband but he never supports me, he always says that elders are always right, and even if they are wrong we can’t tell them anything. He forces me to talk to my mother in law but my heart just does not accept her, she always tries to manipulate me and make me feel weak. I wanted to study and work as I was so tired of being at home just thinking about her all the time, but she told my husband that all women must sit at home and look after their children they have no right to work.

Are my parents allowed to force me to marry someone?

I’m the elder daughter of my parents. I have another younger sister. We don’t have any brother. We always tried to do everything what our parents wanted us to do. Every time my father used to tell me you can do this and you can’t do this. I didn’t have any opinion of my own. It is like what ever we do on our own will be wrong and bad for us.

Dominating older sister

I am a younger sister, and there is eleven years difference in age. My older sister is dominating in always and at times can make me feel claustrophobic. She is dominating in the sense that in conversation and discussion she leads and can never be wrong, and if she decides she wants to do something or go somewhere, i too MUST oblige

Lost my virginity, I´ve been driven to suicide

I am a young 17 years old muslim, I always used to pray everyday 5 times but for I stop praying because I thought my deeds were going unnoticed and Allah didn´t care about me(I know at that time I was stupid) and soon after that I stopped wearing the scarf which now I deeply regret.

I liked a boy like every girl does and I really liked this boy but he broke up with me and I was deeply heartbroken.

I had facebook and allowed my close friend to go on it …