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I never got to marry him, can I marry him Hereafter?

Hi

I fell in love with a boy 6 years ago. We were really serious about each other but our parents wouldnt allow it and he wasnt independent. He repeatedly asked me to do nikah with him in secret but I refused to go against my parents. My parents married me to someone else and I got divorced after 3 months with out consumating the marriage.

How long do you wait before marriage after death of parent/family member

I have met someone who I would like to marry InshAllah. Our family have been involved and are aware. The difficult situation is that i am being told that I can’t get married because my mother passed away in October 2009. I have been told that I had to get married in the first 12 months after my mother passed away or after 3 years…

I am confused and depressed, will my baby go to Jannah?

Then we have along relationship to get to know each other then again he proposed to me that time finished my coursed in Al Dawah Center so i decided to marry him.But i dont know if my marriage is halal …

I want to die, any dua to die instead of suicide

Is there any ‘dua’ for maut instead of attempting a suicide what I don´t want as Allah doesn´t like it? There is a matter of ‘izat’ a character I want a natural death to save me from tortured life.

Ghusl of a deceased woman?

I have few questions regarding washing deceased. I have heard that husband can’t give his wife the last bathe as after the wife dies the nikah becomes invalid, is this true?

Loss of my baby took away desire to live

I converted to Islam four years ago and for this I am thankful my husband. We are married for four years and were waiting our first baby. My pregnancy was with no complications or anything what would give a reason for any concern. On 24th of August 2010 my baby came to this world. Next day he was taken away from my arms and from my life for ever.

Following a funeral procession

What will be said to those who follow the funeral procession?

He says he needs space but how long can one wait for?

I got to know someone for the purpose of marriage this was the intention after having a lot of bad luck with other men. I finally think he is the one for me who spoke about a future, religion and what we would want in our marriage insha Allah. To be fair the relationship is not seen as a boyfriend/ girlfriend type.

From the time my husband’s mother died, our marriage has gone downhill

My husband’s mother passed away two years ago at the age of 60. After that, he became a totally different man. He still talks of his loss as if it was last week. In the past 2 years, he has treated people differently and has far less compassion than ever imagined. If he hurts someone (with his tongue) then “bad luck (if he’s in one of his moods) because his mother has gone”. And now our marriage is falling apart.