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Husband has not told his future second wife we are married.

I don’t know what will happen… will he divorce me when she arrives? His family only agreed because of my suggestion, but the situation has changed.

Before yes, now no! One lie can change everything?

One lie changed everything. My family’s point of view completely changed… they started hating him and his family. When we did istikhara now it came no, so my mother broke the rishta… But he wants to try again after one year.

Wife and her family deceived me about her illness

She admitted to having this illness during her teenage years, and that she took medicine at the time and was cured from it. I was very stressed during those days for having been cheated and deceived by her and her family since they didn’t tell me about this.

My husband’s sisters are controlling him like a robot!

After two years time I came to know that my husband is like a robot and the remote control that is operating him is his unmarried sisters who are 50 years old. His sisters and his parents are completely controlling all their sons like robots.

I found out she was married 6 months later

Six months later she decided to tell me the truth: that she was married with not one but 4 children, and she still lived with her husband. I have never felt so much hurt and anger in all my life! She told me that she loved me and not her husband, and that she wishes that she was with me. I know I should have walked away from her when she told me the truth, but I couldn’t as I love her so much.

Marrying from different culture, mom won’t approve

I am tired of lying to them, they mean the world to me. At the same time this guy is very nice to me. My mom has been going crazy, and I am afraid I will lose her.I am afraid my brothers will go crazy and leave me. My dad doesn’t really mind because he doesn’t live at home with us, so my mother is the father of the house.

Will my earnings be halal if I obtained my degree with dishonesty?

We used to submit our seniors projects with slight modifications to the examiners. Also, there was a workshop course wherein we had to do carpentry, welding, fitting and sheet metal which we were not at all good at and hence we used to pay the attender to do it for us. If I inshaallah get into the government through these exams using that degree, will my income be halal?

Promised to marry me but lied for 4 years

After 4 years of promises, now he is telling me that his father rejects me coz we are from different nationality. But I am a good Muslim and was very committed to him and never knew anyone except him.. In these 4 years, i had family proposals but i did not accept in a hope of waiting for him.

My husband pretended to divorce me in order to marry a second wife

Due to my medical condition, I gave permission to my husband to take a second wife. The person he wanted to marry put a condition that my husband should divorce me. My husband had no intention to do so. So we devised a scheme to write a letter (unintentional divorce) as below and both of us signed it so that he could marry this other woman.