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Need a wazifa to get my fiance to come back

One week before the engagement he told me and my family that he is not able to digest the fact that I had intercourse with my ex boyfriend and he is breaking the relationship…

Sex before marriage and its consequences…

I was forced into sex… later, I kissed a few boys… My potential partner has told me that he’ll marry me but won’t ever share a bed with me, kiss me, or hug me. He doesn’t want to touch me.

Left her because of her past… how do I get her out of my head?

When I was with her, all I could think about was the fact that she was hiding some significant details from me. But now that we’re no longer together, all I can remember are the positives in her that made me grow close to her in the first place.

How can I come to terms with what has happened?

How can I overcome the guilt and shame I suffer from because of my actions? Is there hope for Muslim girl with a “past” when it comes to marriage?

Will he reject me now he knows I’m not a virgin?

This man doesn’t deserve someone that isn’t a virgin. I told him that I am not a virgin hoping if he heard my story he would understand. If he doesn’t accept me, how am I supposed to end this without my family being devastated? Will this one mistake determine my nasib every time I speak the truth when I get a proposal?

Need Help-Should i Marry him?

How can I believe him as they say “Old Habits die Hard”?

Should I disclose past trauma to my future husband?

Should I tell my future husband about my pregnancy and that I gave up my son for adoption?

Can’t decide whether to marry her or not as she said she’s not virgin.

i m a faithful and serious guy never thought of having sex before marriage…. until one day she told me that shes not a virgin and said i know i had hurt you should have told you before etc….am dyinG right now with million thouhhts in my mind…. not able to decide something..she asked me to leave her as she is not worth it..but i m not able to decide.

Should a women disclose her past and is it justified/reasonable for potential husband to ask/know?

Am I correct in feeling and thinking this way? Or does the fact that I am sorry and have sincerely repented in a way undo what I have done? Should men respect a women’s answer when she says her past is her business and she won’t tell him and do women have a right to this?

His family found out about my past and now hate me.

I am worried that even if he somehow manages to get out of the engagement, his family will hate me and also hate him. I don’t know what to do except pray to Allah for forgiveness and to show me the right path. If any one has any advice i would be grateful.