Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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My fiance has Asperger’s, and I am not attracted to him

The second day of isthikara I found out he has Asperger’s syndrome, which is a mild form of autism. This explains his personality, him talking with his eyes closed, talking very loudly in public, no social skills, his awkwardness, etc.

Is it mandatory to get married in Islam?

The problem is that now I don’t want to marry- the reasons being that I don’t want to be insulted again and I still love the same girl. I don’t feel the same way about anyone else and I kinda hate girls now; I don’t want any of them now.

Muslim Boy Don’t Want To Marry

If someone don’t want to marry and want to spend his life as single then is it allowed?

How can I get out of marrying this guy?

My name is Fatuma and my wedding is this summer July 2012 and I’m not ready. I do not like the guy I’m supposed to marry.
I said yes to my parents in the first place because they were mad at me for rejecting my cousin and I didn’t wanted to hurt them again even though I was not happy about what I was doing-but now I’m trying to explain my parent that I never liked that gu

Should I go ahead with this marriage even though I have doubts?

2 months ago I got engaged to a relative of my dad in a foreign (my homeland) country. At first I didn’t want to as I didn’t know the guy and his family but later I got blackmailed by my family (especially my mum), and within a week they gave my hand to this guy whom I never knew and never talk to at least.

Pressured into nikkah with my cousin

I got engaged to my cousin last year (may 2009) and I am very unhappy. I was brought up to believe that my marriage would be my choice and whenever I wanted it to be. Then my mum started pressurizing me about marrying my cousin who is back home but I didn’t want to. (within the period of a month, she tried every tactic to get me to say yes) she kept telling me this is for your happiness and bright future, he is a lovely man and so on.

Don’t want to marry him but family is pressuring me

I am in a major dilemma at the moment and am extremely confused as to what to do, I would like some advice. I am a 19 year old female who was ‘engaged’ two weeks after my 15th birthday due to a lot of pressure from a lot of proposals.