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Mental trauma after divorce

How can I overcome my guilt feeling of divorce and my mental confusions and worship Allah with a genuine sincerity without clouding my mind?

I have broken promises to Allah many times

I promised again not to sin but I broke my promise again. This happened almost three times. Now, I think I lost my “Iman.” I rush towards Allah for forgiveness but there is no reply from Allah. I think there is no reason for my living. In namaz, I have no feelings of standing before Almighty Allah. When I recite Quran, there is no feelings of having Iman.

Have I made the wrong decision?

I was arranged marriaged to a cousin. After marriage he ran away in the UK somewhere. I met my boyfriend a few years later we have had child through IVF conception . But I still not Islamically divorced from my arranged marriage husband.

Should I go ahead with this marriage even though I have doubts?

2 months ago I got engaged to a relative of my dad in a foreign (my homeland) country. At first I didn’t want to as I didn’t know the guy and his family but later I got blackmailed by my family (especially my mum), and within a week they gave my hand to this guy whom I never knew and never talk to at least.

Should I marry for love or follow my parent’s wishes?

I am a muslim boy who wants to marry a Hindu girl. The time when we thought of being with each other for life and get married. I told her that it is going to be difficult for me to marry you because there are few expectations that my parents and family would have from you and I am not too sure if you will be able to fulfil them.

Not attracted to my fiance!

Well basically I’m getting married soon, my fiance is someone i’m not physically attracted to. Do you think this is a big factor or is it something that I can overcome after the marriage…

Suffering from Waswas (whispers of Shaytan) and not sure about my taharath

I am suffering with waswas sometimes I get waswas on saying Allaah also and some times it takes more than half an hour to read one ruku of quraan shareef (vasvasein means whether I m right or wrong) and I am always doubtful in taharath always it feels like urine has passed when I won’t feel like this in periods days I dont know what to do? Alhamdulillaah I am always succesful in my studies please tell me any wazifas or any good suggestions.

He was a bad guy, wants to marry me.

I´m stuck in a situation where I don´t know what to do..I really want someone to tell me some logical stuff and guide me before I get myself in a unwanted situation. I don´t want to ruin my life and so I am scared but love him at the same time..