Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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I don’t have a Wali and my mother is haunted by Jinns

We want to get nikkah without telling our parents. And when he has a career after his degree), then we would approach our parents for a proper marriage.

Dysfunctional Family: No one acts responsibly

I come from a middle income household, a very loving family but the problem is that no one acts responsibly in my family so much so that their recklessness have the to potential to put us all out in the street.

How to balance between a controlling mother and wife

My mother-in-law recently bad-mouthed my mother, which she found out about. Now she laments that her sons don’t stand up for her and she has no one to make people respect her. When I tried to explain that I have very little control over my in-laws, she suggested to send my wife back to her home to ‘teach my in-laws a lesson’.

Stuck in a disruptive marriage and need Islamic advice

I have long story to tell and ask Islamically if I am doing the right thing by staying in this marriage just for financial reasons and for the sake of keeping the family together…

Boy’s father disagrees to our marriage

Is it right to listen to a man that has always been brutal to the women around him? He destroyed his first wife’s life, and she almost committed suicide twice. My boyfriend’s father uses religion as an excuse to break families- including his own. He has even brainwashed the older brother who is on drugs to talk ill about me. My boyfriend told me yet again that he has to sacrifice for his father, and he will.

I cannot take this abuse, so is it haraam to move out?

I want to leave my house. I’ll be 18 in a few months. I can’t stand my family anymore. I’m a girl and I know I shouldn’t live alone but I can’t take it anymore. I’ve been depressed for as long as I can remember. My father has been abusing me for as long as I can remember. I’ve been through all types of abuse. My mother would try and protect me but she’s a sick woman. She’s has high blood pressure and Diabetes. I know it’s tough on her since my dad tortured her for 20 long years.