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My mother continues to berate me after my marriage fell through

My mother continues to make my life difficult and I’m approaching my limit with her. I’ve tried to respect her and her position but to no avail.

I was forced to marry my cousin, who’s been absent since!

My husband has been away for as long as I’ve been married to him, and this marriage wasn’t even my idea. I feel stuck.

I told him the truth about my past and he made my life hell

My husband seems to have an on/off switch for his behavior towards me. He will be nice for several weeks at a time, and abusive the next. He has held my past against me. Am I wrong for still loving him?

Beaten and verbally abused all my life, now lost and hopeless

A lifetime of abuse has taken a toll on me and I now have many physical illnesses that have me vomiting very often and have made me incredibly physically weak, as I feel dizzy and faint of stress, fear and exhaustion.

My wife threatens to leave me because I am not well-settled

My wife is threatening to leave me. When I start crying, she says “Ok I was just joking but I am giving you a time limit, settle down everything soon.”

Dream about the Prophet (pbuh), now my marriage seems to be done.

He is very unhappy with me and I cannot prove to him my honest intentions. In his eyes I am a horrible wife. I feel like I have a curse I cannot get rid of so I can stop making my husband angry and be the wife he can be happy with.

My husband is hardly a husband…I feel so neglected

He tells me to just accept it and that that’s his personality…currently he spends every weekend sleeping at his parents as he says he needs that time for himself.

Moving out from an abusive home – I need advice

I’m being emotionally abused at home and am wondering if it would be a sin to move out. I’ve considered suicide.

Married to an educated but verbally abusive man

Married to a highly educated person, who is angel in eyes of others is a mental torturer for me. Has no sympathy towards me not even on humanitarian basis.

Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.