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I want to reconcile with my wife, who claims her parents blackmailed her

On the one hand, my wife says I am not intimate with her in bed, while on the other hand, she claims her parents emotionally blackmailed her to divorce me. I am confused!

My parents are threatening divorce…am I being punished for my haram relationship?

I don’t think I will be able to fullfill his rights as a husband once I move in with him, because everything about him repels me.

Used, manipulated, gaslighted, and then left by a man

My boyfriend of three years took my virginity and left me devastated.

Forced to marry my first cousin, but I loved another man

Every single day ends with fighting and arguments, because we both married for our parents’ happiness rather than our own.

I don’t want to marry him but I already said “yes!”

What can I do if I am just not feeling good about the guy? I feel like breaking the engagement but at the same time, my whole family will be against me!

My mom will not agree to our marriage

To change and manipulate my mind, my mom keeps crying. But when I ask her why she is crying, she says just so that I can leave my love and marry another man!

Parents blackmailing me into marrying someone other than the girl I love

I was in a relationship with a girl for years and now want to marry her, but my parents are dead set on me marrying the daughter of a Maulana. They are saying that “from day one, we have given you everything you wanted.”

Getting pressured to marry someone I hate, I want to die

I recently turned 18. I am being pressured to marry a first cousin who I hate because he bullied me all through my childhood. I want to die now because I feel like I would be eventually forced to say yes.

Why is he letting his family tell him who to marry?

Why is it so big deal to arrange a marriage for their child? Why they cannot let their child choose for his own happiness? Why they are doing this to him/us?

In desperate need of advice related to marriage

I have been married to my cousin from the previous 3 years. I am extremely unhappy… my mental and physical health have deteriorated and my finances are in a horrible state.