Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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How should I deal with selfish, jealous and interfering people? And any du’a for releasing debts?

When she had a first baby (with my brother) and second i went there bearing gifts and i use to go all out balloons, gifts and i mean expensive but yet when they first found out that i was pregnant the first thing she said was “is she going for an internal check up” who says that!

How to deal with my father who never appreciate whatever I do?

I became serious about religion a couple of years ago, and I don’t say anything back to him, I don’t argue or anything else. But after spending a day or some time with him, he leaves the other person (this happens to everyone in the family) exhausted… I can’t focus on things I should be doing in life, I feel depressed, I just don’t know what to do about this?

My husband is not the good Muslim I thought he was

I recently did nikah about four months ago to a man I thought was the man of my dreams. He prayed, is good with his family and to everyone else. To sum it, he was what I wanted in a muslim.

My husband tells me I am not good enough, should I leave?

I am a 24-year-old married girl. It was an arranged marriage. And it seems he was forced to marry me by his mom though he doesn’t have any love affair as such.My husband repeatedly says he regrets this marriage and colours of his life has vanished?

My husband is not anymore the man I married

We met at a masjid and masha ALLAH he was on the deen, always studying Islam, Quran and hadiths and we use to have long conversations about Islam because we loved to talk about Islam. He was energetic and so pious masha ALLAH, he would lower his gaze automatically when other women come. We also had the same plans in life. I fell in love with him because of his deen, great character, his love for ALLAH and Islam. And not too long after I prayed Istikhara (I wanted to marry him). He ask me to marry him, I was so happy and I accepted and I made sure he knew that all that I want from him is to bring strong Islamic value to the table, he agreed.