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Should I leave my husband and marry my long term non-Muslim friend who is willing to convert sincerely

I am sure that he is the person (badri) who will give me respect and I can be happy with him, even my mother told me if you want to come back then you can, I should leave my husband or not, ( because his conduct and behavior is not good towards me and my thoughts).

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My husband is cheating on me with no remorse, what should I do?

7months back i fiund out my husbnd s having an affair wih a christian girl. She even bcame pregnant. But did abortion. Wat can i do to win my husband bak. He used to pray fridays. Fast. Nd givzskah. But nw he does nothing. Only zakath he givs.

Fear of unknown ahead and stigma attached to divorce is holding me back, desperately need advice

The fear of the unknown ahead as well as the stigma related to divorce is holding me back. I don’t know how I will tell my parents about this. I don’t want to hurt my husband either. We have tried talking about our issues time and time again and we just talk in circles and it doesn’t get fixed. I am so confused and conflicted at this point. I don’t want to live the rest of my life like this.

I want to divorce to be a second wife to this other man but my husband has refused. Please help

I confess my guilt before my husband and asked him to divorce me so that i get married with that person as he is intrusted in marriage but my husband is not giving me divorce. Plz help me out n give me suggestion that what can i do?

Cheated, Betrayed and hurt; what are my options?

I am scared to death to go to the doctors for this may not have been the only woman. I don’t know what I want to do? I wanted to know what are the laws for asking him to leave the home until I can bring myself to know if in-fact I want this marriage? At this point I am so bitter and crushed, I have asked Allah to remove this from my heart,, tears!

Can we both get married in secret despite us being already married?

I know Islamically our marriages have broken down because me and my boyfriend are very intimate and despite being already married but our parents won’t allow that and neither should they know we are intimate. Please can you help me and tell me if I am doing right, if my marriage with my boyfriend will be halaal islamically?

My husband is not honest to me about his relationships with women

It so happened that when I met him 2 years ago before we got married he used to play intimately and have sex with the ladies here and there. Sometimes he was having 3 ladies a day and the ladies do not know about that. He usually go on a wrong path. When I met him, I didn’t know anything about it.

Madly in love with a Muslim guy; who got married recently but I still want to be with him.

We wanted to marry under sharia court in Dubai where we both are living. It’ll be so complicated but its rather live complicated with him that to live life without him. I know many will disagree with the arrangement but what can I do, I never interfered with anybody’s relationship, I just can’t give up on him and so as he cannot give up on me but he also cannot give up his so called wife back home.

No intimacy in marriage has driven me to make a female friend just to satisfy my physical needs.

I can not control myself when she comes around. I want to stay with my wife and have a normal family life and enjoy the little things in life, but due to sexual inactivity my concentration is off on almost everything in life. I want divorce to not even be in my vocabulary, but feel like I am not left with a choice.

We both are married but been intimate; now he has gone cold. I don’t know what to do?

I am a Christian girl that felt in love with a Muslim guy. I am married but I am not happy. My husband hit me once and since them we grew apart. The Muslim guy is nice, kind, smart, charismatic. He is married too. I do not know what to do. I need help from you Muslim friends but I hope getting some advice and not hate words would do what my dialog with him with would have done.