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My fiance forces me to do cyber and phone sex

He forced me to do phone sex and wanted me to initiate or invite him for it… He was angry at me. He said that you don’t have any sexual feelings, what kind of woman you are…

My fiance wants to marry me ONLY for my looks.

I know that my fiance has the right to like me for my looks, but not to such extent that I feel he is only attracted to my body and not my personality. Will this lustful attraction make our future relationship strong? and how much am I assured that he will not start to get bored of me- because at the end of the day, the only reason he wants to be with me is because he claims I am ”beautiful”.

Trying to avoid sinning – should I stop talking to my fiance?

How do I cut the contact I have with my fiance? I love him, I don’t want him to think I no longer have any interest in him, but I don’t want to be sinning by chatting with him on webcam.

Abusive Brother, Forced Engagment and Sexual Molestation

I grew up and it got much more serious. He’s given me black and blue eyes and made me bleed and very much hurt me even though I’ve always listened to him. If I didn’t listen to one word of his, then I would be done and beaten and my parents would do nothing about it and my mom would say: “maybe you should listen and do what he says, your dad will be home, you can tell him.”

Should I marry her now I know she is not a virgin?

It was brought to my knowledge that my fiancee is not a virgin. It is hard for me to accept this and I have wanted to ask someone about it.

My fiance wants to drink occasionally; should I still marry him?

He enjoyed the wine with his family before he became a Muslim. Am I allowed to marry him if he refuses to stop drinking occasionally with his family? In hope that he will understand the deen well enough, to know Allah is the only one to be feared.

Talking to fiance on phone.

Is talking to one’s fiance over the phone and text messaging forbidden in Islam? If yes, then how should they both get to know each other?

Stay with my fiance, or marry the Afghani man?

i have met a nice muslim man from my country and we got engaged. he is 10 years older than me and he wants to get married right away but he has no job. meanwhile i met another man who wants me as a second wife. i cannot decide…

Is it allowed in Islam to kiss and share intimate dreams and moments with my fiancee

I was engaged to cousin of mine two years ago. It was arranged. She knew that I was interested in somebody else and since the beginning I tried very hard to make it work.

Engaged to a Muslim, help me?

I am a christian woman from North America. I met a Muslim man online about 3 years ago. We became very very close friends and eventually we fell in love. We talked about one day getting married and started to even make plans about this. Eventually I was so In love that I took a year off from my university and moved across the world so I could be closer to him. It was perfect! I loved him more and more every day.. every moment. He takes his religion very seriously, and as do I.