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My father has chosen a husband for me who I cannot love

Of late my father has maade a decision for me that’s hurts me so much I can’t sleep at nyt. this decision is for me to get married to a man I do not love and can’t love. he says it because he loves mi that’s why he wnts me to be with this person but I do not love this person.

I didn’t want to get engaged but was forced to for materialistic reasons.

Now, I am engaged to this man but I keep thinking about other man who I had relationships. I know that my parents knew about both guys and they have chosen the better one for me but if that’s the case then why is it so difficult to move on. What do you all think; please advise me.

My girlfriend is engaged to someone else to save her parents pride

I’m from a sikh family, she is a muslim (memon), we met 4 years ago, we are madly in love. She never said much but naturally after studying religions, I started following Islam, but not everyone knows. I was an atheist before, I was not following any religion, she spoke to her parents about me, and I met her parents, her mom told me everything is fine, but we would accept you only when your mother agrees to your conversion.