Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Rape, stigma, lost virginity, and depression

He raped me. I came back home with a lot of pain. I knew I had done the biggest sin for I might be killed.

Two years on from a forced marriage

I am not attracted to him at all and no matter how hard I try I just can’t force feelings and emotions….

She has been taken back home to Bangladesh by force – What can I do to help her?!

I lost contact with her a week ago, she advised me to call the police if I do not hear from her. I am worried about her safety.

Forced to marry; parents refuse to listen

At one point I even told him I was forced to marry..I thought he might understand why it is so difficult for me to behave like a normal wife but he did not understand.. He acts like I never said it and pretends like everything is normal between us..can he not see that I am dying on the inside?

The girl I love & want to marry is engaged to someone else, so am I.

I love a girl and she also likes me but the problem is that my parents had fixed my engagement 5 years back to some other girl and I do not see that girl as my future wife. Moreover the girl I love also her engagement was fixed recently to someone else.

We both are married but we still love each other and been intimate together. Please help

Until one day, I decided to marry the girl I just met, thinking that the other one is so far from me and long distance relationship most of the time don’t work. Then she couldn’t believe that I got married; she cried I caused her pain which she carried out for years. Even if she really loves me, she doesn’t like to be my second wife. And sometimes she have the guts to ask for a divorce. Until one day, I received a divorce agreement from her family, asking me to sign the papers. Yesterday, she got married and I told her, just pretend that you have your monthly period to avoid having intercourse and tell him that ramadan is also coming. The main purpose is to avoid confusion later on if who’s the father (if she will able to conceive).

Got engaged to a 14 year old girl, but she’s not pretty

I was told by my family to chose girl and get married soon as i am 29 almost. One of my relative referred a girl whose age is just 14.5 years. I got opportunity to see her for just 3-4 seconds. i liked her and decided to get engaged. My engagement was done just after few days.

I was guilty and repented, so how much should I reveal to my future husband?

A few years ago I was engaged to a man of bad character (he used to go the clubs) and was forced to be in an engagement with him. We talked on the phone only, but later on we started to talk about inappropriate things and one thing led to another. Now that I have a potential proposal, the potential person’s family and the man himself is asking me whether I was/ had been in such a relationship.

I got emotionally blackmailed into marrying my cousin

i went with family to pakistan to help my sisters get married. but whilst i was there i got emotionally blackmailed into marrying my aunties daughter. but i was already in a relationship with someone for 6 yea