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My wife has committed Zina during Iddah but wants me back

We mutually divorced on paper. Now she wants to come back to me but confessed that she has committed Zina with a married man. I’m confused as to what to do.

How do I ask Allah for forgiveness for something I’m not proud of?

I french-kissed my little brother when we were both children. I regretted it instantly. How can I seek forgiveness?

Pregnant but worried my addiction will affect baby

Will my baby be bad like me? Will the baby have mental or behavioural problems because of my addiction?

Can I be forgiven for multiple premarital sexual acts?

I’m so far astray because I have had sex so many times with multiple people…I’m afraid I will never be forgiven.

I am not madly in love with my fiance. But there’s this other guy…

Should I be with someone who loves me as I am, cares for me, and desperately wants to marry me but for whom I dont feel the same way?

I lied to my family, but the truth would destroy them

I know that if my family found out the truth, it’d hurt them, anger them, lead them to hate me or even hurt me, and could destroy my family and bring shame and embarrassment onto them and me.

I love my husband, but I cheated on him

I have been EXTREMELY happily married for 14 years, and have 2 children. We have been the kind of mushy couple that is always asked if we’re honeymooners. We are best friends! But I recently cheated on my husband. I didn’t get any satisfaction out of it, it was purely for the other person.

I cheated and now my wife doesn´t trust me, even though I have changed

Even though I have changed myself and ready to give in to everything that my wife wants, still she feels that she is the lone one suffering in this marriage. I have done and want to do everything to make her feel good and positive about our relationship but it’s somehow never enough, and the reason is because of what has happened. I can’t go in the past and redo it.

I made mistakes in my prayers!

For example…instead of “innaka annta,” I was reciting “inna annta.” What do I do now?

Lost my partner’s trust, we are broken

e had asked me for the full truth, as his gut was telling him I had hidden so much. I told him some truths and then swore it was everything. He then begged me that there was more and I should come clean so I told him a few more things but still hid others. He then said he would go to my ex-friends and ask them if I didn’t come clean myself. Afraid of the humiliation, I told him every detail. I explained to him that I never wished to hurt him, and my intentions were always pure.