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Marriage problem

My mother has refused to do marriage with her but girl’s family is still willing to do and they are waiting for my decision.

Should he marry her or find another?

He found out that the girl has slept with the mutual friend about twice. Has confronted her and she swears that she is still a virgin.

I have no attraction to my fiance

I just don’t know how to have the courage to tell my parents I don’t want to marry him.

Should I accept this proposal?

Shall I give him a chance and say yes on a condition or shall I drop it from now and save him some time and pain to find someone else because of how young he is and his acquaintances on social media?

Mental confusion

Sometimes it feels like all the elements are pushing us towards each other and at other time we are pushed apart.

Soon to get married but dont know if he still loves me

I think he has started to ignore me. Now rarely tells me that he loves me which he often did. When I ask him he says he was simply tired.

Will I be forgiven by my husband for the sin of intimacy with my lover before marriage?

If this marriage is stopped… then my parents can’t bear that shame. I sacrificed my love for the sake of my parents reputation and happiness. I dont want that to go in vain.

I want to restore my family’s honor… But should I tell him about my past?

He knows I am divorced that’s all. I am very fearful of telling him that I was married to a white man. I feel my past will never leave me alone.

How to deal with parents and their approach to marriage?

Why should I consider someone my mother says when she gave no consideration to my choice? At least if she rejected my choice for a good and valid Islamic reason, I would have accepted that…

What do I do to make him want to marry me?

I met one person as a friend, and now I feel he is the best person for me. But he only likes me as a friend.